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RockstarDad posted 9/15/2020 02:44 AM

For some reason I was reflecting back tonight and donít think I ever came back and said thank you for everything the people on this forum did for me. It has been about 3 years and life has changed a lot and almost all for the better.

I met a wonderful woman who is a great fit and got married a short time ago. I am blessed with 2 wonderful step-children who call me dad in addition to the 2 I share custody with my ex.

No it isnít always easy. New marriage and news kids can be a challenge but I am loving it. I would never go back and change things from happening if I could. My life is very happy.

Amazingly it is my ex who is bitter and tries to cause issues mostly through the kids. So happy I did the therapy and was able to let all that anger go. It was such a burden.

For all those struggling keep your head up and do what is right no matter how hard it is. Looking back with no regrets for my actions is so refreshing. I donít really believe in karma but you definitely reap what you sow.

I wish I remembered the names of all the people who chimed in to thank them specifically, but it has been so long. God Bless all of you.

The1stWife posted 9/15/2020 04:49 AM

Glad to hear a positive update for you.

Your situation was so awful b/c she lived across the street if I remember correctly. I always admired your ability to focus on what is best for your kids.

Hereís to the good life 🍺

And of course the XW is trying to be a thorn in your side. You ended up happy. Her? Not so much and sheís witnessing it. Now sheís having second thoughts. Oh well itís too late for her.

[This message edited by The1stWife at 4:51 AM, September 15th (Tuesday)]

fareast posted 9/15/2020 06:16 AM

Thanks for the update. Itís great that you are doing so well. I am not surprised that you have moved forward with success. Despite the horrible, cruel circumstances your exWW heaped on you, you handled yourself with class and did your best for your boys. Hope your boys are doing well. Your Ex will continue her downward spiral. Good luck.

BearlyBreathing posted 9/15/2020 07:13 AM

Great update!! Thanks!

Chili posted 9/15/2020 10:36 AM

RSD: Great to see an update from you! I knew you were going to...Rock (ha!) your new beginnings. Precisely because you were so level-headed and willing to do the painful work that healing requires.

If it suits, hope you will check in from time to time - I know others could benefit from your example of strength and class.

HalfTime2017 posted 9/16/2020 11:09 AM

Awesome update RD. I remember you since our time table is very similar. Rock on brother

Westway posted 9/17/2020 17:02 PM

Fantastic post. Congratulations on your newfound happiness.

steadychevy posted 9/21/2020 07:30 AM

Thanks for the update, Rockstar. It's good to get happy news and encouraging outcomes.

Throwaway999 posted 9/21/2020 08:42 AM

SI and the people here are the best. What a great update...wishing you peace a d happiness for your new life!

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