Me - BS
Him -WS (passed away Aug2020)
DDay1 - 2011 EA with AP1
DDay2/3 - found out in 2019 about EA/PA same AP1 -4 yr LTA affair ended 2017
DDay4 - found out after he passed away about LTA with ex-wife same time as his first affair
Tips for a very senior cat
So our cat is about 18 or 19 years old...we adopted him so we don’t know his exact age. He is relatively healthy except he is hungry constantly....like constantly. Yet he is super skinny.
And he has stopped using the litter boxes...not always but enough that it’s driving me nuts. Cat pee smells terrible. So I clean and do laundry a lot. He already has multiple litter boxes and still chooses to pee/poop outside them. I have started blocking off certain areas of the house so that is helping.
I hesitate to take him to the vet as I don’t think he is sick...just old. And I don’t have it in my heart to put him down when he relatively healthy except for the hunger and peeing. After losing their Dad last year...the kids aren’t ready either. But it’s still frustrating for me...as cat pee is the worst.
Any suggestions? Different litter? Grin and bear it?
3 comments posted: Friday, February 19th, 2021
Tattoo Laser Removal?
My Wh let me get a tattoo for him and his cancer before DDay. I am now looking at getting either a tattoo cover up or it partially removed.
Has anyone had removal done? Does it hurt? What were your results like?
5 comments posted: Thursday, October 1st, 2020
Silly questions...I have blocked his AP on LinkedIn. So she became a 2nd connection now. I have hidden the AP’s skills endorsements she gave him on his profile. It bugs the crap out of me that my WH’s name shows up all over her profile in her own skills endorsements. I can’t remove the skills endorsements he gave her as they are no longer a 1st connection.
Anyone know how to do this? Anyone know if I delete his LinkedIn account entirely...will it also delete all past skills endorsements he gave her?
I hate that they are permanently linked in public on social media....and I find LinkedIn a bit confusing with the levels of connections. And I know I should just let it go...but it honestly bothers me a lot. I want to remove all traces of their connections to each other after my WH passes away.
0 comment posted: Friday, July 10th, 2020
WH Gmail Spam
Why does my WH have so much spam from porn and dating sites? Is it because he has frequented porn or dating sites? We both have gmail and I never get this kind of spam, and he gets about 10 per day.
4 comments posted: Friday, February 21st, 2020