Topic is Sleeping.
KingofNothing ( member #71775) posted at 4:42 PM on Wednesday, September 16th, 2020
Bigger is right, as he often is. I'm out, there's just too much wrong here, for too long a time, for this forum to be of much use to Awoken. Best of luck, sir, regardless of the truth behind the story.
Rex Nihilo, the King of Nothing
“If you’re going through hell, keep going. Just please stop screaming, it’s not good for morale.”
— Winston Churchill
BS 3 DDays/Attempted R, it failed. In a better place
Westway ( member #71747) posted at 6:49 PM on Wednesday, September 16th, 2020
I think I'm going to bail too. This is just way too messed up. My STBXWW is bad, but this man's WW is pure evil.
XWW: 50 y.o. serial cheater
Married 22 years, Together 24
2 Daughters: aged 16 and 20
thatbpguy ( member #58540) posted at 8:54 PM on Wednesday, September 16th, 2020
Yep, seemed too good to be true and then the red flags. There are others...
ME: BH Her: WW DDay 1, R; DDay 2, R; DDay 3, I left; Divorced Remarried to a wonderful woman
"There are far, far better things ahead than any we leave behind." C.S. Lewis
As a dog returns to his vomit, so a fool repeats his folly...
Talisman ( member #75398) posted at 11:26 PM on Thursday, September 17th, 2020
OK I am going to assume you do not want to say what country you are from.
Tempocontour ( member #65971) posted at 11:59 PM on Thursday, September 17th, 2020
Ok, I have to agree with the lawyer to not tell family and friends. The reason to tell family and friends was to explode her affair world, get her out of the fog, see her remorse, to eventually trying to work on the marriage. But if your goal is to divorce, then playing nice makes sense. She seems very manipulative and only care about herself.
[This message edited by Tempocontour at 6:10 PM, September 17th (Thursday)]
squid ( member #57624) posted at 12:01 AM on Friday, September 18th, 2020
Rip off the bandaid. File.
What you have is not a marriage. Nor has is been one for the last 18 years. She is calling the shots and you are letting her.
Wishing you strength to do the right thing.
This isn’t what any of us signed up for. But it is the hand that we have been dealt. Thus, we must play it.
Topic is Sleeping.