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I just came out on Facebook

Maudlin posted 12/31/2019 12:43 PM

It was amazing. I used a meme that had a woman alone on the beach and the word ďbeat 2020 pictureĒ. And the guy was left in 2019😂
It is allllll out there now. The whole enchilada. With an admonition to I friend me if you think a Facebook shaming is somehow worse than the crap he pulled.

Yay me, the response is overwhelming go me. Because a whole lot of people knew he sucked before I did.

Here is to 2020, when I get my mojo back.

deena04 posted 1/1/2020 16:46 PM

Good for you!! Cheers to an amazing future!

Jesusismyanchor posted 1/4/2020 00:13 AM

I am finding this hard. I come from a very Christian world and find that i really doubt tell anyone. I donít get into the details. I donít want to deal with peoples shock or comments. I donít want to justify myself or talk bad about him. I have really struggled with this. I am ashamed sometimes or it hurts when others are still together. I donít want their pity. I could go on and on. Maybe I need to rip off the band aid. In my case everyone thinks he is wonderful!!

I am proud of you. It takes some guts to put it out there and let it go

Ginny posted 1/5/2020 14:33 PM

Jesusismyanchor,

Gently, I understand what you are saying, but you can own YOUR truth. You donít have to carry HIS shame. It is not your shame to carry. Hold your head high. You donít have to try to uphold a reputation that he threw away himself.

JanaGreen posted 1/8/2020 21:15 PM

Because a whole lot of people knew he sucked before I did.

They come out of the woodwork to tell you! Some of ex's best friends have quietly told me they support me over him lol

Cheatee posted 1/15/2020 20:13 PM

Yay Maudlin!

And also, proclaiming yourself as single is hardly Facebook shaming.

Go you!

tushnurse posted 1/17/2020 13:40 PM

Jesusismyanchor,
Gently, I understand what you are saying, but you can own YOUR truth. You donít have to carry HIS shame. It is not your shame to carry. Hold your head high. You donít have to try to uphold a reputation that he threw away himself.

Amen. Couldn't say it better.

You can absolutely say you have chosen the path you chose, but you don't have to bad mouth him, you can simply state he was not worthy of you. (LOL).

Maudlin honey ejoy the positive. You deserve it.

hopefullife posted 1/19/2020 04:03 AM

Congratulations Maudlin! That sounds so liberating

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