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Maudlin (original poster member #70107) posted at 6:43 PM on Tuesday, December 31st, 2019
It was amazing. I used a meme that had a woman alone on the beach and the word “beat 2020 picture”. And the guy was left in 2019😂
It is allllll out there now. The whole enchilada. With an admonition to I friend me if you think a Facebook shaming is somehow worse than the crap he pulled.
Yay me, the response is overwhelming go me. Because a whole lot of people knew he sucked before I did.
Here is to 2020, when I get my mojo back.
deena04 ( member #41741) posted at 10:46 PM on Wednesday, January 1st, 2020
Good for you!! Cheers to an amazing future!
Me FBS 40s, Him XWS older than me (lovemywife4ever), D, He cheated before M, forgot to tell me. I’m free and loving life.
Jesusismyanchor ( member #58708) posted at 6:13 AM on Saturday, January 4th, 2020
I am finding this hard. I come from a very Christian world and find that i really doubt tell anyone. I don’t get into the details. I don’t want to deal with peoples shock or comments. I don’t want to justify myself or talk bad about him. I have really struggled with this. I am ashamed sometimes or it hurts when others are still together. I don’t want their pity. I could go on and on. Maybe I need to rip off the band aid. In my case everyone thinks he is wonderful!!
I am proud of you. It takes some guts to put it out there and let it go
Jeremiah 29:11- For I know the plans I have for you, plans to give you hope and a future
Ginny ( member #43196) posted at 8:33 PM on Sunday, January 5th, 2020
Jesusismyanchor,
Gently, I understand what you are saying, but you can own YOUR truth. You don’t have to carry HIS shame. It is not your shame to carry. Hold your head high. You don’t have to try to uphold a reputation that he threw away himself.
BW49
FWH50
DDay 11-02-13
Married 30 years
2 month PA/EA with COW
DS28
Trying to R
JanaGreen ( member #29341) posted at 3:15 AM on Thursday, January 9th, 2020
Because a whole lot of people knew he sucked before I did.
They come out of the woodwork to tell you! Some of ex's best friends have quietly told me they support me over him lol
Cheatee ( member #59284) posted at 2:13 AM on Thursday, January 16th, 2020
Yay Maudlin!
And also, proclaiming yourself as single is hardly Facebook shaming.
Go you!
tushnurse ( member #21101) posted at 7:40 PM on Friday, January 17th, 2020
Jesusismyanchor,
Gently, I understand what you are saying, but you can own YOUR truth. You don’t have to carry HIS shame. It is not your shame to carry. Hold your head high. You don’t have to try to uphold a reputation that he threw away himself.
Amen. Couldn't say it better.
You can absolutely say you have chosen the path you chose, but you don't have to bad mouth him, you can simply state he was not worthy of you. (LOL).
Maudlin honey ejoy the positive. You deserve it.
Me: FBSHim: FWSKids: 23 & 27 Married for 32 years now, was 16 at the time.D-Day Sept 26 2008R'd in about 2 years. Old Vet now.
hopefullife ( member #71881) posted at 10:03 AM on Sunday, January 19th, 2020
Congratulations Maudlin! That sounds so liberating
10 yrs together. 2 yrs married. No kids.
2 Ddays. H living with OW and their child.
Focusing on self.
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