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So learning a new way to get off non-PIV and in a way that my partner can replicate - yahtzee. I use the wand about half the time when flying solo, paying attention to what works so he can replicate it later.

I would personally say that if you two are comfortable enough with things.. Experiment that, together...

Nothing explodes a guy's mind more, than such exploration... and especially if you both succeed together.

Experiment that, together...

Oh we do lol. That's just extra practice for me.

After being the Madonna wife to a husband with a madonna-whore complex, I'm very much enjoying being with someone with zero sexual hang-ups. I really forgot what I was missing!

@LBC Ugh, I did not. The guy I was hoping to see didn't show to the party this past weekend. And seriously frustrated on that note. He did send me a request on LinkedIn a few weeks back and apparently checked my profile last night. But I can't be like, are you winking at me on my business professional profile? Via their messenger.

I thought about messaging him though...he's got to have some kind of interest if he's looking...

I did take big steps today in going NC with my WH and changed my phone number of 20 years. I was going to post about the turn of events but I'm wiped right now.

[This message edited by CatsNTats at 12:59 AM, October 1st (Tuesday)]

Dang...

Cats, are you guys in the same industry?

I'd just find him on Facebook and start flirting on messenger. Get him.

@LBC, I may have a different prospect. A guy I used to bartend with. His ex-wife also had an affair putting an abrupt end to their marriage when she disappeared with her AP for a month.

There's always been an attraction there. This may work. He's not looking for anything serious since his recent D and neither am I. Just wants to have fun.

I am about to hit my midterms with 5 exams starting from this Friday to next so I told him he'd have to wait to see me. His reply was that he could definitely wait until then and it would for sure be worth it...

Made me blush.

@JG - we are not. He's actually in the same industry as my brother. That's how I know who he is. Part of what has kept me from messaging him - in case he isn't interested and goes back to my brother thinking I'm some kind of weirdo. Was kind of hoping...he'd initiate if we saw each other. At least in person you can get a feel for whether or not they are the slightest bit interested without making an ass out of yourself. I don't actually know if this guy is single. He's got his FB page on lockdown. And I'm not willing to pursue anyone that is taken.

This old bartender colleague of mine may be a safer bet for now. Love that he's got two sleeves. Men with covered arms are so fucking sexy. But the other guy is pretty fucking sexy too...(watch out for the drool...)

Cool, good luck with midterms and your prospect!

Ohhh he sounds hot!

Between ovulation and the prednisone I'm on right now my poor man may die tomorrow when I finally get to see him Now I'm thinking about your tatted up bartender friend lol

Now I'm thinking about your tatted up bartender friend

Hey now, us men are not lumps of meat to be used for your sexual pleasure. We are real humans with feelings and everything!

Hey now, us men are not lumps of meat to be used for your sexual pleasure. We are real humans with feelings and everything!

Dude, DUDE! Shut the f*** up! Don't screw up a good thing!

Carry on, ladies, nothing to see here, just two lumps of meat having a 'discussion,' nothing to stop men from being used!

Yeah, what ^^he^^ said...

I am a lump of meat.

I am a lump of meat.

I am a lump of meat.

I am a lump of meat.

I am a lump of meat.

I am a lump of meat.

I am a lump of meat.

I am a lump of meat.

I am a lump of meat.

I am a lump of meat.

Negative. I am a meat popsicle.

[This message edited by Incarnate at 11:59 AM, October 3rd (Thursday)]

Im sorry barcher! I'll try to not to objectify y'all so much in the future.

Meat popsicle

STOP! You all have me ugly laugh crying right now!!! Holy shit... rolling.

Hey now, us men are not lumps of meat to be used for your sexual pleasure. We are real humans with feelings and everything!

Dude, DUDE! Shut the f*** up! Don't screw up a good thing!

Carry on, ladies, nothing to see here, just two lumps of meat having a 'discussion,' nothing to stop men from being used!

Yeah, what ^^he^^ said...

I am a lump of meat.

I am a lump of meat.

I am a lump of meat.

I am a lump of meat.

I am a lump of meat.

This is hilarious. And refreshing.

@JG - (don't apologize ) I am supposed to see him tonight...we made a "date"...

he wanted to come over last night. I made him wait.

We've exchanged some photos. It's been a while since we've seen each other.

@JG - (don't apologize )

Yeah, I am just a meat popsicle. I don't deserve an apology.

Yeah, I am just a meat popsicle. I don't deserve an apology.

Teasing you Barcher.