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LilBlackCat (original poster member #57470) posted at 9:17 PM on Wednesday, August 7th, 2019
So I was trying to be good and frugal with my lunch today and went to MCD..
Had my phone coupon ready and all..
I get into the drive thru, fought temptation of ordering their new stuff... Told myself, "I'm sticking to my 2 for $3 deal, dollar soda and using my coupon for free fries".
I pull up to pay at the window... then it happens.. The cutest young woman is there so very nice, friendly, and smiley..
Internally, I'm like woah.. too bad she is too young.. bla bla..
I pay, no coupon.. I had completely forgot about the coupon and even forgot what the heck I ordered till I got the bag at the next window. 
umm yeah. 
Me: BS 43 (Now 50)
Her: WW 37
18 M, 19 Together
4 Children, youngest is now 9.
Divorce Final as of 9/3/19.
Candyman66 ( member #52535) posted at 9:32 PM on Wednesday, August 7th, 2019
Furious1 ( member #42970) posted at 11:37 PM on Wednesday, August 7th, 2019
BW (me): 46
2 adult kids
D-day: 10/4/13.
Divorced
WornDown ( member #37977) posted at 12:20 AM on Thursday, August 8th, 2019
That's what you get for thinking with your ....
Stomach.
What did you think I was going to say? Get your mind out of the gutter!
Me: BH (50); exW (49): Way too many guys to count. Three kids (D, D, S, all >20)Together 25 years, married 18; Divorced (July 2015)
I divorced a narc. Separate everything. NC as much as humanly possible and absolutely no phone calls. - Ch
barcher144 ( member #54935) posted at 5:11 PM on Friday, August 9th, 2019
My job is such that I regularly work with 18-22 year old women, some of whom are stunning.
After doing this job for 20 years, I have become very good at identifying the type of woman that knows she is physically attractive and tries to manipulate accordingly. They actually become very unattractive to me, rather quickly.
Curiously, there are other women who are very attractive but want to be taken seriously for who they are as a person. They don't flirt and they sometimes even try to hide how attractive they are.
Me: Crap, I'm 50 years old. D-Day: August 30, 2016. Two years of false reconciliation. Divorce final: Feb 1, 2021. Re-married: December 3, 2022.
JanaGreen ( member #29341) posted at 4:41 AM on Saturday, August 10th, 2019
AbandonedGuy ( member #66456) posted at 5:37 PM on Monday, August 12th, 2019
barcher what are some traits of these manipulators? I'd like to avoid the type in the future.
EmancipatedFella, formerly AbandonedGuy
barcher144 ( member #54935) posted at 6:17 PM on Monday, August 12th, 2019
barcher what are some traits of these manipulators? I'd like to avoid the type in the future.
I am with these women for professional reasons so perhaps it's easier to spot for me?
Any time that they seem to make things personal too quickly... I become suspicious. Also, there are just subtle gestures that are flirty and manipulative. Wearing a low cut blouse and leaning forward. Touching me when it is not necessary. Lingering eye contact with a smile.
For whatever reason, the line from Lyin Eyes by the Eagles comes to mind:
City girls just seem to find out early
How to open doors with just a smile
Me: Crap, I'm 50 years old. D-Day: August 30, 2016. Two years of false reconciliation. Divorce final: Feb 1, 2021. Re-married: December 3, 2022.
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