havequestions posted 7/31/2019 20:52 PM

I had sex with a very attractive women for the first time since I split with my ww.
While I was nervous and probably didn’t perform as well as I wanted to, she was passionate, excited and very much into it.
My ww, who told me she only had sex with me out of obligation, made sex miserable and only cared about herself. Many times leaving the room when she finished and I wasn’t.
I can’t believe how good it felt to have someone want me again!!!!

Phoenix1 posted 7/31/2019 21:16 PM

Kinda makes you feel all warm and tingly inside knowing your still alive in that department after all, doesn't it?

havequestions posted 7/31/2019 22:17 PM

Makes me feel human again

Want2BHappyAgain posted 8/1/2019 05:38 AM

Yep !!! I never had an O with my 1stH...didn't even know what it felt like. OH MY GOSH...I can't imagine NOW ever going through life without one...but you don't know what you don't know...you know???!!!

WhoTheBleep posted 8/1/2019 09:05 AM

Amazing how good sex can be when you're not being simultaneously abused by your partner, right?

Enjoy yourself, havequestions! You're back!

WornDown posted 8/1/2019 09:35 AM

Congrats and good for you!

Maudlin posted 8/3/2019 13:35 PM

Good for you!!

Since I found out about the hookers I’ve been online dating, and it’s been amazing. I felt old, unattractive, rejected. I gave up my youth (22 years!) for that loser, I thought. Well, it turns out there is a whole world of attractive, interesting men out there who actually want to make ME happy in bed rather than just themselves. It’s mind blowing really.

Our WS are narcissists and users, so it adds up they are selfish and lousy in bed but it’s quite another thing to really realize that.

I dont have the desire or emotional head space for a serious relationship, but I am thoroughly enjoying being a great big slut😂

havequestions posted 8/3/2019 17:27 PM

I hope this isn’t tmi, but she even asked what I like and proceeded to doing it! I can’t remember when my ww did that for me!

Braveyogi posted 8/9/2019 11:34 AM

this is such an inspiring post! thanks for sharing havequestions! I appreciate your (and the other poster's) honesty on this very important topic!

JanaGreen posted 8/9/2019 15:16 PM

Oh it's amazing isn't it?? Happy for you havequestions!!!