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10000th Post Party for Sassylee!

Topic is Sleeping.

 Party Monkey (original poster moderator #30) posted at 6:57 PM on Thursday, July 25th, 2019


posts: 1000002   ·   registered: May. 31st, 2002
id 8410702

Unhinged ( member #47977) posted at 7:43 PM on Thursday, July 25th, 2019

Well done, sassylee. You're part of the reason why I accepted a guide spot.

Heading towards divorce
D-Day April, 2015

"The Universe is not short on wake-up calls. We're just quick to hit the snooze button."
-Brene Brown

posts: 6363   ·   registered: May. 21st, 2015   ·   location: Colorado
id 8410722

lieshurt ( Moderator #14003) posted at 8:12 PM on Thursday, July 25th, 2019

Congratulations!!! And, thank you for all that you do and the wisdom that you share with us.

No one changes unless they want to. Not if you beg them. Not if you shame them. Not if you use reason, emotion, or tough love. There is only one thing that makes someone change: their own realization that they need to.

posts: 22374   ·   registered: Mar. 20th, 2007   ·   location: Houston
id 8410734

steadychevy ( member #42608) posted at 11:14 PM on Thursday, July 25th, 2019

10,000. Wow. Thanks for all you do.

BH(me)70; XWW 64; M 42 yrs
DDay1-01/09/13;DDay2-26/10/13;DDay3-19/12/13;DDay4-21/01/14
LTA-09/02-06/06? OM - COW
"dates" w/3 lovers post engagement;ONS w/stranger post commitment, lies, lies, lies
Separated 23/09/2017; D 16/03/2020

posts: 4689   ·   registered: Feb. 27th, 2014   ·   location: Canada
id 8410819

WalkinOnEggshelz ( Administrator #29447) posted at 11:56 AM on Friday, July 26th, 2019

Congrats girl!! Thank you for all you do for us.

Me: WS late 40’s
Him: BH (HoldingTogether)
D Day: 7/24/2010
If you keep asking people to give you the benefit of the doubt, they will eventually start to doubt your benefit.

posts: 14514   ·   registered: Aug. 27th, 2010   ·   location: Texas
id 8410996

Chili ( member #35503) posted at 4:09 PM on Friday, July 26th, 2019

Right on Sassylady! Your insight and support are so valued around here.

(Plus, you have great hair. )

2012 pretty much sucked.
Things no longer suck.
Loving flying solo with the co-pilot chili dog.
"Life teaches you how to live it if you live long enough" - Tony Bennett

posts: 2151   ·   registered: May. 2nd, 2012   ·   location: Reality
id 8411110

Chrysalis123 ( member #27148) posted at 5:13 PM on Friday, July 26th, 2019

Holy Cow-10,000 posts !! Wow. I wonder how many total words you have shared on SI? So many people have been helped by your participation on SI. Thank you

Someone I once loved gave me/ a box full of darkness/ It took me years to understand/ That this, too, was a gift. - Mary Oliver

Just for the record darling, not all positive changes feel positive in the beginning -S C Lourie

posts: 6709   ·   registered: Jan. 10th, 2010
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foreverlabeled ( member #52070) posted at 10:28 PM on Friday, July 26th, 2019

That's a lot of fucking posts

Thank you!!

posts: 2536   ·   registered: Mar. 1st, 2016   ·   location: southeast
id 8411306

Chili ( member #35503) posted at 5:19 AM on Saturday, July 27th, 2019

Hey - I thought the *rules* in Fun & Games say:

bad language will not be tolerated.

Last I checked, "fucking" was sorta bad. As in:

That's a lot of fucking posts

GUIDE PLEASE!

Wait....

2012 pretty much sucked.
Things no longer suck.
Loving flying solo with the co-pilot chili dog.
"Life teaches you how to live it if you live long enough" - Tony Bennett

posts: 2151   ·   registered: May. 2nd, 2012   ·   location: Reality
id 8411434

foreverlabeled ( member #52070) posted at 12:01 PM on Saturday, July 27th, 2019

I'll alert a mod

posts: 2536   ·   registered: Mar. 1st, 2016   ·   location: southeast
id 8411470

minusone ( member #50175) posted at 12:11 PM on Saturday, July 27th, 2019

WTG Sassy......

"I did then what I knew how to do. Now that I know better, I do better". Maya Angelou

posts: 8356   ·   registered: Nov. 2nd, 2015   ·   location: USA
id 8411473

gmc94 ( member #62810) posted at 2:12 PM on Saturday, July 27th, 2019

Wow Sassylee! Thanks!

M >25yrs/grown kids
DD1 1994 ONS prostitute
DD2 2018 exGF1 10+yrEA & 10yrPA... + exGF2 EA forever & "made out" 2017
9/18 WH hung himself- died but revived

It's rude to say "I love you" with a mouthful of lies

posts: 3516   ·   registered: Feb. 22nd, 2018
id 8411510

Oldwounds ( member #54486) posted at 8:44 PM on Saturday, July 27th, 2019

Nice!

Do you get a new title with 10K? Like SI Jedi?

Married 34+ years, together 40+ years
Two awesome adult sons.
Dday 6/16 4-year LTA Survived
Restoration takes time.
"Circumstances don't make the man, they only reveal him to himself." ― Epictetus

posts: 4226   ·   registered: Aug. 4th, 2016   ·   location: PNW. The adventure continues.
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Topic is Sleeping.
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