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 Party Monkey (original poster moderator #30) posted at 4:27 AM on Thursday, June 20th, 2019

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Ripped62 ( member #60667) posted at 4:54 AM on Thursday, June 20th, 2019


Keep on shaking sister!

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WalkinOnEggshelz ( Administrator #29447) posted at 10:22 AM on Thursday, June 20th, 2019


Me: WS late 40’s
Him: BH (HoldingTogether)
D Day: 7/24/2010
If you keep asking people to give you the benefit of the doubt, they will eventually start to doubt your benefit.

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lieshurt ( Moderator #14003) posted at 6:14 PM on Thursday, June 20th, 2019


No one changes unless they want to. Not if you beg them. Not if you shame them. Not if you use reason, emotion, or tough love. There is only one thing that makes someone change: their own realization that they need to.

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sassylee ( member #45766) posted at 6:21 PM on Thursday, June 20th, 2019

Woo Hoo!!

My R(eformed)WH had a 5 month EA in 2012
In my 7th year of R
“LOVE is a commitment, not an emotion. It is a conscious act of a covenant of unconditional love. It is a mindset and a thought process.” - BigHeart2018’s Professor

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Chrysalis123 ( member #27148) posted at 3:23 AM on Sunday, June 23rd, 2019

WOW!!!! Thank you.

Someone I once loved gave me/ a box full of darkness/ It took me years to understand/ That this, too, was a gift. - Mary Oliver

Just for the record darling, not all positive changes feel positive in the beginning -S C Lourie

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BearlyBreathing ( member #55075) posted at 6:42 PM on Sunday, June 23rd, 2019

Wow! Thanks for all your wisdom and kindness!!

Me: BS 54 (49 on d-day)Him: WH. 64D-Day 8/15/2016 LTA
Kinda liking my new life :-)

**horrible typist, lots of edits to correct. :-/ **

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BraveSirRobin ( member #69242) posted at 7:34 PM on Sunday, June 23rd, 2019

Wow!! Congratulations!

WW/BW 50s (Me)
BH/WH 50s (TimeSpiral)

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looking forward ( member #25238) posted at 10:35 PM on Sunday, June 23rd, 2019

[This message edited by looking forward at 4:37 PM, June 23rd (Sunday)]

Together 53+ years, Married 49 years. Sober since 2009. "You've always had the power, my dear, you just had to learn it for yourself." (The Wizard of Oz)

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dreamlife ( member #8142) posted at 12:10 AM on Monday, June 24th, 2019


~XWH told me what I wanted to hear but he always did whatever he wanted to do~

"He called me a bitch.
I called him an ambulance."
Linda H.)

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Unhinged ( member #47977) posted at 6:11 AM on Wednesday, June 26th, 2019

That's a lot of helping a lot of people, including me.

Thank you, SMS, for all that you do for this wonderful community.

Heading towards divorce
D-Day April, 2015

"The Universe is not short on wake-up calls. We're just quick to hit the snooze button."
-Brene Brown

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LetItRain ( member #63932) posted at 4:01 PM on Friday, June 28th, 2019

Thanks for all the care you've offered!

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hopefull77 ( member #43221) posted at 12:39 PM on Saturday, July 6th, 2019

Thank You SMS!!!

me-BS him-WS3 adult childrenmarried a long timeLTA 2010-2012D-day - 11-2012 status - reconciling and very hopeful

" I will not define myself by what went wrong yesterday when I can draw upon Life and Love right now."

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minusone ( member #50175) posted at 12:38 PM on Thursday, July 11th, 2019


"I did then what I knew how to do. Now that I know better, I do better". Maya Angelou

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Tallgirl ( member #64088) posted at 5:12 AM on Sunday, July 21st, 2019

That is incredible. And it is all good stuff!

Legally separated, one more step.

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Wool94 ( member #53300) posted at 3:39 AM on Wednesday, July 24th, 2019

You have to know you are awesome!

D-Day #1: April 7, 2016
D-Day #2: May 21, 2016
D-Day #3: June 7, 2016
Me: 1975
Her:WW (amn8r) 1981
Son 2006
Daughter 2009
"God not only loves you, but He actually likes you. "-Stephen Hooks

"My faith is mine now."

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