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She won't do a DV because that would threaten my job and her life support.

If she was that concerned about financial security, the stability of you, the kids, the house, etc, she never would have cheated. Once you blow up OM's job, she might want to return the favor, so please get a VAR.

Good luck throughout the rest of this journey!

Glad you're hunkering down for the likely explosion.

It's good kids are schedule for counseling.

Stay the course.

Try to get a read on the military asap.

[This message edited by MidnightRun at 11:41 PM, September 12th (Tuesday)]

You're in the zone, both strategically and emotionally.

We've got your back.

so please get a VAR.

He's all over that. Already recorded her admission that it was a PA.

Well, everything is prepped and on the pad. Just waiting for the fallout to begin from exposure. The letters I sent should reach the intendeds any day now. The handwrittens were for the folks close to the core-OMs parents, her fiends in the church that were unwilling pawns, and a few others to include the principal at the school. Wanted to send one to her coworker who is also her A cheerleader. I have no idea how she can be so supportive of my WW and her extracurricular activities and go home to her husband each night. How does she look him in the face and tell him she loves him after sponsoring infidelity all day. How would she feel if it were him in infidelity?

Follow up call to congressman is on today's hot button list. He will launch a congressional inquiry into OM and his command- national security issues

[This message edited by SI Staff at 9:32 AM, September 13th (Wednesday)]

So did u send that letter to the coworker? Or perhaps her husband? It was unclear in what you said. You should.

and a few others to include the principal at the school

Dude, you need to keep her working...

Doing excellent GW. You have your timeframe and sequence that works for your well thought out plan.

Time for a few days of patience to let unfold.

I try to keep in mind that this is real life and real people involved, and in real time. I do feel a little guilty about being excited for you when I see you working your way through this shitstorm, seeing someone like you reclaim your life.

Didn't send one to the cheerleadernor the principal. I'll not have anything dondonwith her losing her job. I'm sure at the rate she's going- him having things delivered to her work she'll do it in her own.

Sounds like you are doing great. I just wanted to reiterate the ... don't rely to heavily on her being rational when it's revenge time. She hasn't had a plan to begin with... so I doubt she will think things out when she is angry. For example a fake DV could get you out of the house, and since you aren't living together... that might help OM case... and you deserve it for messing with OM's job (WW POV)...

I would feel much better if you had a VAR on you during any and all conversations.

The two love birds brought a pin knife to a gun fight.

Stay the course.

[This message edited by SI Staff at 12:44 PM, September 13th (Wednesday)]

i would like to echo a concern. dont expect ww to act with thought or rationally. expect and plan for bat shit crazy. var at all times!

Letter bombs all around

I feel like we are all down in the basement after the tornado sirens have sounded. Complete with flashlights and popcorn!

Just popping in to say Well Done, Sir! You've had a heck of a lot of good people walking with you and you've listened, taken action, and thought strategically. Very well done indeed.

Gw,

I agree that you can't expect her to act rationally when this goes down. She isn't acting rationally now.

Remember. They are Soul Mates. Always destined to be with one another. They are now star crossed lovers. People and events conspiring against them. Conspiring against their dream.

I'd GPS her car. Even if you can track her by her phone. Extra intel never hurts.

Dude. Despite the title of your thread, you're doing things pretty well.

I echo the others:

DO NOT expect her to be rational. Plan for the worst.

DO focus more on yourself and less on POSOM.

DO get a VAR.

Good luck

The mod edited my last post, which included a salient political tactic.

I hope you read the information before it was deleted.

Small detour.

Twisted, I get a blast every time I read your tagline. "Hey, does this rag smell like chloroform to you?

I got it midnight run. Just waiting now. This should all come to a head very soon..... we shall se what the outcome is. She will either lose her mind royally or have a severe breakdown...... but remember she will hate me forever, and other kindergarten threats. Maybe it'll make her unass my cottage and run to the naval brig to lend support.... we shall see.

have you heard back or been assured that jag and his chain of command will prosecute? slso, have you spoken to your congressmans citizen services person yet?