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Amazonia ( Member #32810) posted at 2:02 PM on Saturday, September 22nd, 2012

If a member gets banned while in the autorenewal phase, will their auto renew be stopped, or can they still log in to cancel payment going forward?

"You yourself deserve your love and affection as much as anybody in the universe." -Buddha
"Let's face it, life is a crap shoot." -Sad in AZ

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StillGoing ( Member #28571) posted at 2:03 PM on Saturday, September 22nd, 2012

Thanks DS, I found it. I blame the Oktoberfest.

Is there a way to see posts in the time range between oldest & newest, or will oldest be locked to where it is now?

Also, if billing in the future is monthly automated will there be a way to donate additional money or is that reserved for initial signup? If that was detailed somewhere I missed it, sorry.

Tempus Fuckit.

- Ricky

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Aubrie ( Member #33886) posted at 2:17 PM on Saturday, September 22nd, 2012

Umm, I have a dumb question...

When I click "Older Posts" I'm seeing everything from my start date thru March.

"Recent posts" show from mid-July to present.

I'm not seeing a scrolly thing or page (2) icon for the posts between March and July.

Am I missing something? (Which is possible. I haven't had my coffee yet.)

Also, reading old stuff...Oh Em Gee. Don't know how some of y'all didn't chase me outta here.

"Courage is being scared to death and saddling up anyway." - J. Wayne

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 MangledHeart (original poster Webmaster #1) posted at 2:46 PM on Saturday, September 22nd, 2012

If a member gets banned while in the autorenewal phase, will their auto renew be stopped, or can they still log in to cancel payment going forward?

Good question. I will make sure that if a member is banned their subscription will be cancelled before any additional charges appear.

Is there a way to see posts in the time range between oldest & newest, or will oldest be locked to where it is now?

The archives are still a work in progress. I plan on expanding on what has already been done. I would like to add pagination similar to what you see on the forum pages in SImplicity.

Also, if billing in the future is monthly automated will there be a way to donate additional money or is that reserved for initial signup?

Additional donations can always be made using the link on the left.

When I click "Older Posts" I'm seeing everything from my start date thru March.

Your older posts are currently limited to the first 500 that exist in the archives. Once pagination has been added you should be able to navigate through all of your posts. I have not yet begun that programming so I do not have a timetable for when that will be completed.

Worry does not empty tomorrow of its sorrow; it empties today of its strength. ~Corrie Ten Boom

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Aubrie ( Member #33886) posted at 3:10 PM on Saturday, September 22nd, 2012

No worries. Just seeing the first 500 is pretty flipping awesome.

Again, y'all are great.

Thank you.

"Courage is being scared to death and saddling up anyway." - J. Wayne

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UKgirl ( Member #17062) posted at 3:47 PM on Saturday, September 22nd, 2012

Can I just pay annually? The upgrade now and then however much it is in 12mths time on or before the anniversary?

Can we still make other one-off donations? (I'm thinking if the day should come when I graduate, send a last gift and say bye-bye....)

Affair1: Dday 30/07/06 LTA: 5yrs ex-fiancee Affair2: Dday 04/09/20 9mths another XHSgf.
Me/BS, still young. Him/WS, old. 4 grown boys
Having an affair because you are unhappy is like eating Ex-lax because you are hungry - unfound's mom

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authenticnow ( Member #16024) posted at 3:49 PM on Saturday, September 22nd, 2012

Additional donations can always be made using the link on the left.

DS, you are forever in my heart. Thank you for sharing your beautiful spirit with me. I will always try to live by the example you have set. I love you and miss you every day and am sorry you had to go so soon, it just doesn't seem fair.

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gonnabe2016 ( Member #34823) posted at 5:22 PM on Saturday, September 22nd, 2012

@DS--I was just kidding.....you may not realize from the unladylike language that I spew around here, but even *I* know that it is classless to request a refund from a 501c

The upgrades sound awesome, thanks MH for putting in the time and effort to *make it happen*!

"Oh, what a tangled web we weave when first we practice to deceive." - Sir Walter Scott

In my effort to be *concise*, I often come off as blunt and harsh. Sorry, don't mean to be offensive.

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cryingdaily ( Member #7276) posted at 5:51 PM on Saturday, September 22nd, 2012

Ugh, ugh, ugh! Just as I hit "submit" I realized I may have made a typo in my name on the billing info.

It seems to have gone through anyway, but if my payment bounces back, because I'm a dumbass, will I be banned?

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UKgirl ( Member #17062) posted at 6:04 PM on Saturday, September 22nd, 2012

Additional donations can always be made using the link on the left.

Oh yeh! And still paypal.

So what about:

Can I just pay annually? The upgrade now and then however much it is in 12mths time on or before the anniversary?

Cos that’s what I’d prefer – and you’d get the money upfront.

Affair1: Dday 30/07/06 LTA: 5yrs ex-fiancee Affair2: Dday 04/09/20 9mths another XHSgf.
Me/BS, still young. Him/WS, old. 4 grown boys
Having an affair because you are unhappy is like eating Ex-lax because you are hungry - unfound's mom

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StillGoing ( Member #28571) posted at 7:33 PM on Saturday, September 22nd, 2012

Sorry, I should have been more specific. Will I be able to donate with CC again or is it limited to paypal and check/money order?

Thanks for everything.

Tempus Fuckit.

- Ricky

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cdnmommy ( Member #30182) posted at 11:08 PM on Saturday, September 22nd, 2012

Great idea! It's been awhile since I made a donation. :)

Me: BW
DDay: Oct 2010 + 6 weeks false R
2.5 (+?) year A with married coworker/my "friend"
2 great kids
Reconciling and healing

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heartstabber ( Member #34079) posted at 11:10 PM on Saturday, September 22nd, 2012

How do we access the mobile app?

Thanks

Me: WW
Married: 15 years
DD: November 2011

Let's eat Grandma. Let's eat, Grandma. Commas save lives.

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Lucky2HaveMe ( Member #13333) posted at 11:21 PM on Saturday, September 22nd, 2012

Do the old posts ever go away? Is there a max # of posts that can be saved to our profile?

Love isn't what you say, it's what you do.

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heartstabber ( Member #34079) posted at 12:16 AM on Sunday, September 23rd, 2012

Never mind, there is no mobile app.

Me: WW
Married: 15 years
DD: November 2011

Let's eat Grandma. Let's eat, Grandma. Commas save lives.

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Tred ( Member #34086) posted at 12:24 AM on Sunday, September 23rd, 2012

Sorry, inside joke that was misinterpreted. I should have known better.

[This message edited by Tred at 6:47 AM, September 23rd (Sunday)]

Married: 24 years (14 @JFO)
D-Day: 11/09/11
"Ohhhhh...shut up Tred!" - NOT the official SI motto (DS)

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gotmylifeback ( Member #32693) posted at 2:13 AM on Sunday, September 23rd, 2012

I know that for some people even $20.00 can be a lot on a limited budget. If I was to pay, lets say $40.00, can I gift $20.00 of it to another SI member who is financially sruggling so they can benefit from premium access?

Her-Unremorseful, Wayward ex wife
Me-No longer a betrayed husband
Happily remarried.

"Even a dead fish will go with the flow. Don't be a dead fish." - my pastor.

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OnceInALifetime ( Member #26023) posted at 2:57 AM on Sunday, September 23rd, 2012

Got a weird question for you. I changed my user name due to privacy concerns (the mods were kind enough to let me do that). If I pay for premium access, will I be able to see archived posts of other users as well (i.e. my original user name)?

[This message edited by OnceInALifetime at 9:58 PM, September 22nd (Saturday)]

BH, now divorced

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jo2love ( Member #31528) posted at 3:00 AM on Sunday, September 23rd, 2012

Tred -

GENERAL STATEMENTS: Please refrain from making statements that generalize gender, WS/OP/BS, race, religion or political alignment. Also do not presume to speak on behalf of other people.

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Amazonia ( Member #32810) posted at 12:43 PM on Sunday, September 23rd, 2012

Thank you Jo!!

"You yourself deserve your love and affection as much as anybody in the universe." -Buddha
"Let's face it, life is a crap shoot." -Sad in AZ

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