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Dagny07 ( Member #16928) posted at 7:19 PM on Sunday, September 23rd, 2012

I have the same issues as cayc:

My upgrade worked, but the subscription ID line is blank (i.e. no number).

Tho I rarely post, I'm on this site almost everyday. We're in R and I owe a debt of gratitude to this site and the extraordinary people who run it and contribute to it.

We wouldn't have made it without you.

Me:BW Him: FWH E/A
M: 30 years, together 37 : both guilty of PAs 20+ years ago
CDay#1 Oct 06 (false); DDay#2 Oct 07 (truth from OW's BH)
R: Tenaciously optimistic

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dreamlife ( Member #8142) posted at 10:48 PM on Sunday, September 23rd, 2012

I am in D right now & super broke.

Can I sent in my payment along with my Christmas card as I do send in a yearly *gratitude contribution* every Xmas.

~XWH told me what I wanted to hear but he always did whatever he wanted to do~

"He called me a bitch.
I called him an ambulance."
Linda H.)

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lifeblowntobits ( Member #33687) posted at 1:13 AM on Monday, September 24th, 2012

Bonus from work coming this week so I will definitely be upgrading! This is awesome!

Me-BS-44, Him-WH-45-very remorseful
OW-Married, opportunistic co-worker whore
DD#1 7-30-2011: everything else lies until 2-12-12
Married 11years, DS19y, DS15y
2.5 years out: in a good place, light at the end of the tunnel

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cryingdaily ( Member #7276) posted at 2:17 PM on Monday, September 24th, 2012

So, it's probably right in front of my face but.....how do I see older posts?

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nowiknow23 ( Member #33226) posted at 2:20 PM on Monday, September 24th, 2012

CD - From the Forums page, click on "CLICK HERE" for SImplicity. Then click on "Profile." There's a link for "View Oldest Posts"

Be sure to set aside a bit of time. It's engrossing...

You can call me NIK

And never grow a wishbone, daughter, where your backbone ought to be.
― Sarah McMane

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Chria ( Member #14090) posted at 2:49 PM on Tuesday, September 25th, 2012

I didn't scroll through the entire 5 pages of this topic (call me lazy). Sorry if these have already been answered....

I always send a check at the beginning of each year. Should I stop doing that and go to credit card from now on?

Since there is now a 'benefit' for paying, is it still tax-deductible?

[This message edited by Chria at 8:49 AM, September 25th (Tuesday)]

The odds are greatly against you being immensely smarter than everyone else in the field. If your analysis says your terminal velocity is twice the speed of light, the chances are better that you've screwed up than you've invented warp drive.

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Deeply Scared ( Administrator #2) posted at 3:30 PM on Tuesday, September 25th, 2012

Chria...

I always send a check at the beginning of each year. Should I stop doing that and go to credit card from now on?

And we greatly appreciate that you do that every year!! If it were me, I would use the CC method that way you get access to all your old posts along with the other benefits.

Since there is now a 'benefit' for paying, is it still tax-deductible?

Absolutely I'll be revising the 'receipt' for everyone that has upgraded to the SImplicity and will send them out most likely in the next two weeks. Plenty of time before end of year taxes

"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." My Mom:)

My tolerance for stupid shit is getting less and less.

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Chria ( Member #14090) posted at 3:33 PM on Tuesday, September 25th, 2012

I would use the CC method that way you get access to all your old posts along with the other benefits.

Can I wait until January? (I guess this means no benefits until then ?)

[This message edited by Chria at 9:33 AM, September 25th (Tuesday)]

The odds are greatly against you being immensely smarter than everyone else in the field. If your analysis says your terminal velocity is twice the speed of light, the chances are better that you've screwed up than you've invented warp drive.

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joe blow ( Member #17349) posted at 2:12 AM on Wednesday, September 26th, 2012

I've heard about the auction block a few times now, but never seen it as a forum. What exactly is it, and how can I access it?

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Deeply Scared ( Administrator #2) posted at 3:27 AM on Wednesday, September 26th, 2012

I'm sorry Chria

Joe...we will be holding an auction with goods that have been donated by some very generous members. If all goes right, it should be open to the public this week

"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." My Mom:)

My tolerance for stupid shit is getting less and less.

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BaxtersBFF ( Member #26859) posted at 3:36 AM on Wednesday, September 26th, 2012

Okay...Ummm...when did the Auction Block forum disappear? It was up there for a couple years...as was noticeable by the some mods accidentally moving threads there on a layover to the proper forum destination...

Am I the only one who didn't notice it disappeared?

WH - 49
BW - gerrygirl

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Jrazz ( Member #31349) posted at 3:37 AM on Wednesday, September 26th, 2012

No Baxter, you're just a little late to the party.

"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." - Deeply Scared's mom

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BaxtersBFF ( Member #26859) posted at 3:39 AM on Wednesday, September 26th, 2012

Just point me to the booze and it all be fine...

WH - 49
BW - gerrygirl

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Jrazz ( Member #31349) posted at 3:40 AM on Wednesday, September 26th, 2012

There appears to be some tainted Kool Aid in General.

Also, can the Guides please stop jacking this thread? Geez.

"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." - Deeply Scared's mom

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nowiknow23 ( Member #33226) posted at 3:44 AM on Wednesday, September 26th, 2012

Did I miss a Guide thread jack? Dang.

DS - VERY excited for the Auction forum to make a comeback!!!

You can call me NIK

And never grow a wishbone, daughter, where your backbone ought to be.
― Sarah McMane

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Angelstar5 ( Member #35276) posted at 9:06 AM on Wednesday, September 26th, 2012

I know you said using paypal would be a pain, but i'm confused because you accept paypal for donations.

I can't use a credit card, i HAVE to use paypal. THere are reasons, one being that I do not want WH to know i spent money for this, and he never goes thru the checking account but does the credit cards. I can't use my debit card because we get text messeges related to that (my doing, keeps me posted if he uses it for weird stuff)

So, what if i donate to paypal, can someone upgrade it for me then? I'll pay whatever fee paypal is charging. thanks

Me 56,WH 55alcoholic/Married 25y
2 kids age 16 and 28
DDay #1-7/3/94 hooker, DDAY #2,2/10/12 found 100's of calls to a hooker gaslighting begins. DDay#3 3/26/12 proof/TT DDay#4 3/28/12 weekly sex with 2 hookers Dec-Feb. Several EAs

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Deeply Scared ( Administrator #2) posted at 9:33 PM on Wednesday, September 26th, 2012

Dreamlife...

Can I sent in my payment along with my Christmas card as I do send in a yearly *gratitude contribution* every Xmas.

Angelstar...

So, what if i donate to paypal, can someone upgrade it for me then? I'll pay whatever fee paypal is charging. thanks

The Premium access currently is programmed to handle CC payments only. I'm sorry!!

"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." My Mom:)

My tolerance for stupid shit is getting less and less.

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Deeply Scared ( Administrator #2) posted at 11:01 PM on Wednesday, September 26th, 2012

I changed my user name due to privacy concerns (the mods were kind enough to let me do that). If I pay for premium access, will I be able to see archived posts of other users as well (i.e. my original user name)?

Onceinalifetime...

You would have to pick which account you want the premium access to be applied to, unless you upgrade both your accounts. But with your old account, you would not be able to post under...it would be strictly 'read only' If that's the route you want to go, please let me know privately that you want your old account re-opened for reading your previous posts

"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." My Mom:)

My tolerance for stupid shit is getting less and less.

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mitz66 ( Member #17888) posted at 1:42 AM on Thursday, September 27th, 2012

Hi! I just checked my visa bill and unfortunately it says www.survivinginfidelit springs TX. I thought you should know how it is showing up on the bill. I am okay as my wh does not have online access. But others may have an issue. Don't know if that can be fixed.

Me:50 BS Him:48 XWH
Married almost 10 years
3 adult kids
1st DDay 2 wks after marriage
5 OW's and false R's
April 2017 Divorced

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Deeply Scared ( Administrator #2) posted at 2:52 AM on Thursday, September 27th, 2012

mitz...thanks so much...I'll call our cc processor first thing in the morning.

"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." My Mom:)

My tolerance for stupid shit is getting less and less.

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