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 MangledHeart (original poster Webmaster #1) posted at 5:00 PM on Thursday, October 17th, 2013

A new feature has been added to SImplicity. Threads that you have started will now be highlighted in your profile/recent posts.

Philly, Your threads date back to 4/8/2008 in the archives.

Worry does not empty tomorrow of its sorrow; it empties today of its strength. ~Corrie Ten Boom

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little turtle ( Member #15584) posted at 3:02 AM on Saturday, October 19th, 2013

I just checked out the latest feature...my very first post that is archived is highlighted. However, that is the only one that is highlighted. Idk if it is just me, or what.

Failure is success if we learn from it.

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little turtle ( Member #15584) posted at 3:47 PM on Monday, October 21st, 2013

Oh, never mind. I see that it's only highlighted for the recent posts. Not for the older posts.

Failure is success if we learn from it.

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angerisme ( Member #37672) posted at 3:54 PM on Monday, October 21st, 2013

I attempted twice to sign up for Silver Package. It declined my transaction each time. My credit card is in good condition so it seems you may be having continuing trouble. I will try again next week :)

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Deeply Scared ( Administrator #2) posted at 3:57 PM on Monday, October 21st, 2013

angerisme...

There are no reported problems with our cc processing, transactions are going through fine.

Thank you.

"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." My Mom:)

My tolerance for stupid shit is getting less and less.

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silverhopes ( Member #32753) posted at 8:40 PM on Friday, October 25th, 2013

Just wondering, is there a way that a user might suddenly be un-followed without you doing it?

A few follows dropped from my list suddenly, and one now has an inaccessible profile (redirects me to the main SI page when I attempt to click on the profile link). Just wondering what it meant. Thank you.

[This message edited by silverhopes at 2:40 PM, October 25th (Friday)]

Aut viam inveniam aut faciam.

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Ascendant ( Member #38303) posted at 10:05 PM on Friday, October 25th, 2013

Same problem here, SilverHopes. I thought maybe someone blocked me, but I couldn't figure out why.

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jo2love ( Member #31528) posted at 10:16 PM on Friday, October 25th, 2013

A few follows dropped from my list suddenly

It means they are no longer a member.

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silverhopes ( Member #32753) posted at 11:10 PM on Friday, October 25th, 2013

Thank you for letting me know.

Aut viam inveniam aut faciam.

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143ANF ( Member #22730) posted at 3:33 PM on Wednesday, November 20th, 2013

FYI...

My charge showed up this month as TMS*WWW SURVIVINGINFID

It isn't a problem for me but it may be for other members.

Also, is there any way to move renewals to a single yearly payment instead of monthly payments? I use a CC that I don't use regularly and I'll have a hard time remembering to make the CC payment.

Thanks!

Me: BS 49
FWXH 45
Divorced 05/20/2010
Last D-Day and the end 09/29/2015

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Deeply Scared ( Administrator #2) posted at 3:19 PM on Tuesday, November 26th, 2013

143ANF...

I'm so sorry I didn't see this earlier!!

I got another report about this last night and just got off the phone with our cc processor. For some reason that they can't explain the 'retail description' (what shows on your statement) was changed from SIonline to what you reported.

I just ran a test transaction on myself to verify that it will show back up as SIonline and will post back here once it shows up.

Thank you for letting me know about this

"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." My Mom:)

My tolerance for stupid shit is getting less and less.

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mitz66 ( Member #17888) posted at 11:32 AM on Friday, November 29th, 2013

Hi, I made a donation last year and was happy to support this site. I did not know that I signed up for ongoing transactions. It is now on my cc statement as survivinginfidelity, now twice. This site is not known to my spouse, however with online shared banking it will now be known. I would like to stop the re-occurring transactions. How do I do that? I thank all of you for the support over the years. Having re-occurring transactions is a hardship. I could not find a spot to private message webmaster.

Me:50 BS Him:48 XWH
Married almost 10 years
3 adult kids
1st DDay 2 wks after marriage
5 OW's and false R's
April 2017 Divorced

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little turtle ( Member #15584) posted at 9:26 PM on Friday, November 29th, 2013

Did anyone get upgraded to platinum access from the latest chess match fundraiser? I donated $50, but I still have $4.10 coming out of my account. Just wondering.

mitz, you can PM DeeplyScared. She's married to the webmaster.

Failure is success if we learn from it.

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Deeply Scared ( Administrator #2) posted at 1:48 PM on Saturday, November 30th, 2013

Little Turtle...

We upgraded you on 11/6/2013 for the Chess Match donation, but I'll ask MH why it would show as a recurring. I'll PM you later today

Mitz...I sent you a PM

"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." My Mom:)

My tolerance for stupid shit is getting less and less.

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Lostandpregnant ( Member #41433) posted at 7:31 PM on Saturday, November 30th, 2013

I just wanted to say thank you to the ones you started and maintain this forum..I just upgraded to show my gratitude.I didn't change my username because I feel like this is still who I am.

He left me 18 weeks pregnant with twins for another.I am a Licensed Private Investigator..it even happens to us.

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Deeply Scared ( Administrator #2) posted at 7:51 PM on Saturday, November 30th, 2013

Lost...

You are so very welcome!! We're happy that you found us and are getting as much support as needed

"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." My Mom:)

My tolerance for stupid shit is getting less and less.

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little turtle ( Member #15584) posted at 3:35 PM on Sunday, December 29th, 2013

Just wanted to update that I'm still getting a monthly withdrawal from my account even though MH upgraded my account for another year of Premium from the Chess Match donation.

Good news though -- the billing shows as SI ONLINE.

Failure is success if we learn from it.

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Deeply Scared ( Administrator #2) posted at 3:40 PM on Sunday, December 29th, 2013

LT...

I'll take care of that tomorrow morning for you

"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." My Mom:)

My tolerance for stupid shit is getting less and less.

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silverhopes ( Member #32753) posted at 4:57 AM on Friday, February 14th, 2014

Hi there,

I'm sorry if I missed this - if my credit card information has changed recently, how do I change that on SImplicity? Thank you in advance.

Aut viam inveniam aut faciam.

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Deeply Scared ( Administrator #2) posted at 4:29 PM on Sunday, February 16th, 2014

Silverhopes...

The easiest and most secure way (because we don't store cc information) would be to just let your current subscription expire and then renew with your new cc information

[This message edited by SI Staff at 10:30 AM, February 16th (Sunday)]

"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." My Mom:)

My tolerance for stupid shit is getting less and less.

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