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Amazonia ( Member #32810) posted at 5:48 PM on Monday, July 1st, 2013

I went to "follow" a friend, and saw that the link for "forget" was grayed out on her profile. She also has platinum.

I'm not interested in forgetting her, just curious why the link would be grayed out.

"You yourself deserve your love and affection as much as anybody in the universe." -Buddha
"Let's face it, life is a crap shoot." -Sad in AZ

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Amazonia ( Member #32810) posted at 5:52 PM on Monday, July 1st, 2013

okay, this is kind of stupid ... but I wish I could "follow" myself so my own threads were highlighted automatically.

ETA: Awww, can't follow guides, mods or admin?

[This message edited by Amazonia at 11:54 AM, July 1st (Monday)]

"You yourself deserve your love and affection as much as anybody in the universe." -Buddha
"Let's face it, life is a crap shoot." -Sad in AZ

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nowiknow23 ( Member #33226) posted at 5:59 PM on Monday, July 1st, 2013

just curious why the link would be grayed out.

If you have an outbound PM to a user you will not be able to forget them.

Awww, can't follow guides, mods or admin?

And staff can't follow or forget anyone.

You can call me NIK

And never grow a wishbone, daughter, where your backbone ought to be.
― Sarah McMane

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Amazonia ( Member #32810) posted at 6:01 PM on Monday, July 1st, 2013

Just re-read (I'm such a skimmer!) and saw what you posted NIK. Thanks.

"You yourself deserve your love and affection as much as anybody in the universe." -Buddha
"Let's face it, life is a crap shoot." -Sad in AZ

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stilllovingher ( Member #29959) posted at 7:30 PM on Monday, July 1st, 2013

some of my early posts are still not showing, like my first post (my story).

is this not guaranteed, dependent upon which forum, or some astrological anomaly?

its not a big deal, but if there is a way to get them, that would be awesome.

thanks.

p.s. I wonder how many peeps will "forget" me. And who.

The only difference between a butt kisser and a brown noser is depth perception.
I'm sure WAL would agree.

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Tred ( Member #34086) posted at 7:31 PM on Monday, July 1st, 2013

Odd, there is a grey unreadable post right after Ama's. Wonder what that could be?

Married: 24 years (14 @JFO)
D-Day: 11/09/11
"Ohhhhh...shut up Tred!" - NOT the official SI motto (DS)

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nowiknow23 ( Member #33226) posted at 7:32 PM on Monday, July 1st, 2013

You can call me NIK

And never grow a wishbone, daughter, where your backbone ought to be.
― Sarah McMane

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Aubrie ( Member #33886) posted at 7:32 PM on Monday, July 1st, 2013

"Courage is being scared to death and saddling up anyway." - J. Wayne

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Jrazz ( Member #31349) posted at 7:33 PM on Monday, July 1st, 2013

ETA: Awww, can't follow guides, mods or admin?

Now what kind of ninjas would we be if we let you do that?

Odd, there is a grey unreadable post right after Ama's. Wonder what that could be?

I'm so sure, Tred. You know that if MH implements a "Stalk" feature, slher is going to be the first person you click on.

"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." - Deeply Scared's mom

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stilllovingher ( Member #29959) posted at 7:35 PM on Monday, July 1st, 2013

jackace

The only difference between a butt kisser and a brown noser is depth perception.
I'm sure WAL would agree.

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stilllovingher ( Member #29959) posted at 5:21 AM on Thursday, July 4th, 2013

a glitch in the following system:

i just got a PM from someone I "follow", the PM was locked, had to unfollow to reply.

ooooh! unless that member "forgot" me after sending it!

[This message edited by stilllovingher at 11:23 PM, July 3rd (Wednesday)]

The only difference between a butt kisser and a brown noser is depth perception.
I'm sure WAL would agree.

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jo2love ( Member #31528) posted at 5:26 AM on Thursday, July 4th, 2013

stilllovingher - I've alerted your question so MH can help you.

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stilllovingher ( Member #29959) posted at 5:32 AM on Thursday, July 4th, 2013

tanky tanky

not really a problem for me, just reporting a glitch.

The only difference between a butt kisser and a brown noser is depth perception.
I'm sure WAL would agree.

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jo2love ( Member #31528) posted at 5:37 AM on Thursday, July 4th, 2013

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 MangledHeart (original poster Webmaster #1) posted at 6:28 PM on Thursday, July 4th, 2013

i just got a PM from someone I "follow", the PM was locked, had to unfollow to reply.

This should be fixed. Please check this again and let me know.

Worry does not empty tomorrow of its sorrow; it empties today of its strength. ~Corrie Ten Boom

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stilllovingher ( Member #29959) posted at 7:53 PM on Thursday, July 4th, 2013

seems fine now.

I have a pm outbound to the "followed" person and have the option to send a reply.

The only difference between a butt kisser and a brown noser is depth perception.
I'm sure WAL would agree.

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Tred ( Member #34086) posted at 4:23 PM on Thursday, July 11th, 2013

How far back do the archives go? I seem to have a gap: if I view my "oldest" posts, I have 20 pages that ends on 8/20/2012, viewing "recent" posts it only goes back to 4/30/2013. I can't see anything between those dates - there is a gap in the archive I can't seem to access.

Married: 24 years (14 @JFO)
D-Day: 11/09/11
"Ohhhhh...shut up Tred!" - NOT the official SI motto (DS)

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 MangledHeart (original poster Webmaster #1) posted at 3:43 PM on Friday, July 12th, 2013

We started the archiving process in 2008. The archives contain all posts dating back to that year. The archives may contain more recent posts that you are not seeing yet. Periodically I run a script to harvest platinum members' posts from the archives so you will see them under "oldest" posts in SImplicity.

Your list of "recent" posts is limited to a total of 500 posts in SImplicity or 50 posts on standard SI.

Worry does not empty tomorrow of its sorrow; it empties today of its strength. ~Corrie Ten Boom

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Tred ( Member #34086) posted at 6:30 PM on Friday, July 12th, 2013

Thanks MH. Just to be clear, eventually I'll see all my posts? Right now under Simplicity I see 500 posts from 12/3/11-8/20/12 if I select "Oldest Posts", and the last 50 if I select "Recent Posts", but I can't see any of the posts in between that gap.

Married: 24 years (14 @JFO)
D-Day: 11/09/11
"Ohhhhh...shut up Tred!" - NOT the official SI motto (DS)

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 MangledHeart (original poster Webmaster #1) posted at 8:07 PM on Saturday, July 13th, 2013

Your archived posts will eventually all be visible in SImplicity. But as long as you are still posting there will always be a gap between oldest and recent posts.

Worry does not empty tomorrow of its sorrow; it empties today of its strength. ~Corrie Ten Boom

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