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Basic_Guy ( member #4396) posted at 8:17 PM on Wednesday, February 9th, 2005

justlife...I agree that all the BS's need to be told...but in fairness...just breathing is punishment enough for these geniuses...lol...lol

Courage does not always come with blinding flashes of light....sometimes you only notice it after it passes...

My patron saint is a-fighting with a ghost
He's always off somewhere when I need him most.

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 dazed*n*confused (original poster member #6298) posted at 8:20 PM on Wednesday, February 9th, 2005

He didn't get home last night until about 7:30 my guess is he erased any calls from OP 2 that were questionable.

He came in never said a word about any of it! Fell asleep in the chair with my 1 year old.

He left the tape on the front seat of his car...doors unlocked and alarm off! Way too easy so I left it there! Like it was a setup or something.

Well this morning I followed him out to the car when he was putting the kids in to take them to school. He handed me the recorder. Again this morning it was like it never happened business as usual. Other than the stunned deer look in his eyes....

anyway

He says listen to it if you want to. Tells me about a call with OP 2 - I may think is questionable. Tells me you know you can't hear with the other person is saying on this tape.

Say I would have expected this a couple weeks ago before you told me about the screen shot you had. But I didn't expect this now I thought everything was better. I guess I'll have to work harder to prove I'm serious.

BS 42 - 00 Lucy here
bombzilla 52 (my problem child)
4 kids (newborn - 6)
DDay 2/8/05 - that's when I actually saw the light! Or better known as the day the BOMB dropped!

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willowiris ( member #5372) posted at 8:30 PM on Wednesday, February 9th, 2005

OMG.....I don't mean to laugh...I really don't...but.... OMFG...I am DYING.

D-day 09/2004
Filed for divorce 9/2006

We accept the love we think we deserve. "The Perks of Being a Wallflower."

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 dazed*n*confused (original poster member #6298) posted at 8:37 PM on Wednesday, February 9th, 2005

I can't tell anyone anything yet! I've known her husband for a lot of years! He will not believe me unless I have something solid!

Oh I'll tell him no doubt! But I have to have irrefutable absolute proof!

And if I were wrong on these assumptions I'm making she would have called me today to make a joke about it. Not a word from her! I scared some people big time yesterday! I could feel their hearts up in their throats!

I knew exactly when this happened! I was picking up the kids and I broke into a cold sweat and started shaking. And though Oh Shit they found it!

BS 42 - 00 Lucy here
bombzilla 52 (my problem child)
4 kids (newborn - 6)
DDay 2/8/05 - that's when I actually saw the light! Or better known as the day the BOMB dropped!

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 dazed*n*confused (original poster member #6298) posted at 8:58 PM on Wednesday, February 9th, 2005

He just called

Boy is he making nice with me! Wants to work on us....etc.

Asked him about the reaction today he said I guess everyone has their own preconcieved notions

He said my story and I'm sticking to it is...this is yours and it's usually stuck to your computer and one of the kids took it and lost it in the car.

AS IF I'M Going to LIE FOR HIM! I DON'T THINK SO!!!!! Ah yes I have them on the run!

BS 42 - 00 Lucy here
bombzilla 52 (my problem child)
4 kids (newborn - 6)
DDay 2/8/05 - that's when I actually saw the light! Or better known as the day the BOMB dropped!

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Basic_Guy ( member #4396) posted at 9:02 PM on Wednesday, February 9th, 2005

"Asked him about the reaction today he said I guess everyone has their own preconcieved notions".......ummmm...these same people followed him out to his car to give their expert opinions on if he had a bomb in his car or not......

Nope......preconcieved notions are not their strong suit...lol

Courage does not always come with blinding flashes of light....sometimes you only notice it after it passes...

My patron saint is a-fighting with a ghost
He's always off somewhere when I need him most.

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HUM1021 ( member #6222) posted at 9:06 PM on Wednesday, February 9th, 2005

Put a bomb in the car and see if they try talking into it.

Me: BS 34
Her: WS 33
M 5 years
dday with 1st OM 4/30/04 EA/PA
dday with 2nd OM 12/11/04 EA/PA
on the reconciliation rollercoaster

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hurt and alone ( member #5049) posted at 9:07 PM on Wednesday, February 9th, 2005

You go girl!!!

Never allow someone to be your priority while allowing yourself to be their option!!!

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Basic_Guy ( member #4396) posted at 9:12 PM on Wednesday, February 9th, 2005

"Put a bomb in the car and see if they try talking into it"...lol...lol

Ok...that is another funny image...lol

Thanks Hum....

Courage does not always come with blinding flashes of light....sometimes you only notice it after it passes...

My patron saint is a-fighting with a ghost
He's always off somewhere when I need him most.

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 dazed*n*confused (original poster member #6298) posted at 9:31 PM on Wednesday, February 9th, 2005

I forgot....Took your suggestions

He said I can't believe you just did this yesterday!

I told him....Maybe maybe not how do you know I haven't been doing this for weeks. Did they find anything when they worked on your seat today?

BS 42 - 00 Lucy here
bombzilla 52 (my problem child)
4 kids (newborn - 6)
DDay 2/8/05 - that's when I actually saw the light! Or better known as the day the BOMB dropped!

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 dazed*n*confused (original poster member #6298) posted at 9:32 PM on Wednesday, February 9th, 2005

powers that be we need an evil smiley

BS 42 - 00 Lucy here
bombzilla 52 (my problem child)
4 kids (newborn - 6)
DDay 2/8/05 - that's when I actually saw the light! Or better known as the day the BOMB dropped!

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Basic_Guy ( member #4396) posted at 9:34 PM on Wednesday, February 9th, 2005

LOL....you know...it is not nice to mess with the heads of people like this......lol...lol

Courage does not always come with blinding flashes of light....sometimes you only notice it after it passes...

My patron saint is a-fighting with a ghost
He's always off somewhere when I need him most.

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coastofsomewhere ( member #3624) posted at 9:36 PM on Wednesday, February 9th, 2005

This has got to be the funniest thing I have read in forever! I am in tears here! I can just see the look on this guy's face when he thinks someone has planted a bomb in his car. If I was one of his co-workers, I would have been like "why in the WORLD would someone plant a bomb in your car?" Of course, he may be the type who walks around the office saying, "You lookin at me?! Are you lookin at me?!" LOL!!! This is too funny!

dazed...one thing you could say to explain the tape recorder and keep up your "Lucy" personna...say he had you worried about the whole life insurance thing and you wanted to make sure he wasn't thinking about "taking care" of you...if you know what I mean.

[This message edited by coastofsomewhere at 3:37 PM, February 9th (Wednesday)]

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Basic_Guy ( member #4396) posted at 9:48 PM on Wednesday, February 9th, 2005

Ok...if you have to talk to him about this...two words of advice.......small words....

Courage does not always come with blinding flashes of light....sometimes you only notice it after it passes...

My patron saint is a-fighting with a ghost
He's always off somewhere when I need him most.

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cheerleader ( member #3246) posted at 9:58 PM on Wednesday, February 9th, 2005

words??hell draw him pics in crayons

Well f@#$ me running, sometimes it isnt worth the effort to chew thru the restraints!
Where the is hope there is love.Where there is love there is life.Life is for living

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girlalmostgone ( member #4867) posted at 10:14 PM on Wednesday, February 9th, 2005

Forget paper and crayons..

How about pointing and grunting!

Dazed.. I am sorry.. But thank you for a very much needed laugh today.. God knows I needed one!

Love is no assignment for cowards. Ovid

I just really feel like I am a hamster running on the wheel.. and I am ready to get off the wheel, and try running around in the hamster ball.. kinda like a free range chicken.

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 dazed*n*confused (original poster member #6298) posted at 10:37 PM on Wednesday, February 9th, 2005

LOL!

My problem is I have to now keep my big fat yap shut!

Now is the time to be silent and really let it work on him! Ya wanna screw with my head? Ok now it's war!

I setup an appt with an MC...I'm going to use this time wisely! I'm going to pull my head, bank account and business together. If he's still here when I'm done ok we'll work with that if not....HIS LOSS!

He can be replaced!

BS 42 - 00 Lucy here
bombzilla 52 (my problem child)
4 kids (newborn - 6)
DDay 2/8/05 - that's when I actually saw the light! Or better known as the day the BOMB dropped!

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 dazed*n*confused (original poster member #6298) posted at 10:39 PM on Wednesday, February 9th, 2005

Actually I'm considering a german shepard....they have fewer fleas!

BS 42 - 00 Lucy here
bombzilla 52 (my problem child)
4 kids (newborn - 6)
DDay 2/8/05 - that's when I actually saw the light! Or better known as the day the BOMB dropped!

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willowiris ( member #5372) posted at 10:48 PM on Wednesday, February 9th, 2005

Maybe he could go to Iraq to work for the defense contractor Halliburton as a land mine de-activator!!

He is so alert and atune to what bombs look like...I'm sure he'd be safe!

I just had to come back and say that this reminds me of some kind of commercial for something though I don't know what. Just to see people standing around a parking lot in business suits staring at the thing in his car. My face hurts and my kids think I'm crazy.

[This message edited by willowiris at 4:55 PM, February 9th (Wednesday)]

D-day 09/2004
Filed for divorce 9/2006

We accept the love we think we deserve. "The Perks of Being a Wallflower."

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 dazed*n*confused (original poster member #6298) posted at 10:50 PM on Wednesday, February 9th, 2005

Ohhhh you evil conservative you! I LOVE IT! Great Idea....think I'll bring it up when we go to see Skynrd....hehehehehehehe

BS 42 - 00 Lucy here
bombzilla 52 (my problem child)
4 kids (newborn - 6)
DDay 2/8/05 - that's when I actually saw the light! Or better known as the day the BOMB dropped!

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