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 dazed*n*confused (original poster member #6298) posted at 1:56 PM on Wednesday, February 9th, 2005

He just called! Guess he's nervous....

He has decided today (after 3 years) he is getting his seat fixed. He's taking the car in for service. They have to take the seat out to fix the seat adjustment wheel

OH YEAH....Bastid never did eat my spagetti!

BS 42 - 00 Lucy here
bombzilla 52 (my problem child)
4 kids (newborn - 6)
DDay 2/8/05 - that's when I actually saw the light! Or better known as the day the BOMB dropped!

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kschuff ( member #5522) posted at 2:07 PM on Wednesday, February 9th, 2005

That is the funniest thing I have ever heard!

That would be my luck if I tried to do something like that! I bet he is really nervous...serves him right!

Divorce Final 6/5/08
Remarried 6/21/2011 <3

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CautiousNow ( member #3160) posted at 2:20 PM on Wednesday, February 9th, 2005

Dazed ... he's probably nervous because he doesn't know just exactly HOW LONG that recorder has been there!

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HUM1021 ( member #6222) posted at 2:24 PM on Wednesday, February 9th, 2005

Yeah, mention something about how surprisingly long the batteries last in that thing...

Me: BS 34
Her: WS 33
M 5 years
dday with 1st OM 4/30/04 EA/PA
dday with 2nd OM 12/11/04 EA/PA
on the reconciliation rollercoaster

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SheWolf ( member #2859) posted at 4:21 PM on Wednesday, February 9th, 2005

ROFLMAO, OMG, this is the funniest thing I've read to date.

I tell you, I printed this out, took 17 pages, need to go get some ink...

I'm gonna share it with my therapist, and WH...but of course will cut off site info..

This is my personal haven, so off with the headers/footers...hugs,me

BW 55
WS 52
DDAY 7/2001
married 34yrs, Separated for now, probably forever. I BELIEVE IN ME.

2 beautiful grandkids:

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hurt and alone ( member #5049) posted at 4:42 PM on Wednesday, February 9th, 2005

DAzed,

Do you truly think he is still up to something??

He is not that stupid???

By the way this is too funny!!!!

Never allow someone to be your priority while allowing yourself to be their option!!!

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Basic_Guy ( member #4396) posted at 4:47 PM on Wednesday, February 9th, 2005

I just read through this again...lol...lol...I can't help it....it is just too damn funny....

I have this whole big mental image in my head.....

All I keep thinking is...him coming into the office and saying...."I might have a bomb in my car...I want you all to come check it out"....and not one person thought...."ok....you want me to do what?"...lol

Courage does not always come with blinding flashes of light....sometimes you only notice it after it passes...

My patron saint is a-fighting with a ghost
He's always off somewhere when I need him most.

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Nicole Keyes ( member #5702) posted at 5:47 PM on Wednesday, February 9th, 2005

Was having a bad day but after reading this my day is looking much better. Basic you are so funny. Dazed wishing you luck.

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SCORNED ( member #6301) posted at 6:10 PM on Wednesday, February 9th, 2005

dazed,

what happened...was there anything good on the tape?

"The cruelest lies are often told in silence."

Robert Louis Stevenson

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Tal ( member #3300) posted at 7:45 PM on Wednesday, February 9th, 2005

00 Lucy, huh? OMG!

Somebody pull up the D-day Disaster thread & send the link to Dazed & Confused so she will know she's not the ONLY Lucy around here! My FWS found a parabolic listening device in the back of my car. I explained that it was for my job (pretty credible explination, actually). He didn't really buy it, though.

Here's my advice to say to your H:

"Why YES, Ricky! I DID put a bomb in your car! The recording device is set to trigger the bomb to explode if certain KEYWORDS are spoken!"

RFLMAO! Use DUCT TAPE next time!

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 dazed*n*confused (original poster member #6298) posted at 7:48 PM on Wednesday, February 9th, 2005

OMG...This tape was SOOOOOOO Telling!

I am so glad I got caught I can't even tell you!

Oh Yeah he IS screwing around NO DOUBT ABOUT IT! But it's not what I heard on the tape.....it's what wasn't said that makes it so clear!

This gave me the upper hand like nothing else could! NO ONE EVER expected little ol me could pull something like this! They thought I was handled.

His affairs are not about being in love with the OP - HE's a freaking boy toy for 2 women with power and he's just playing right along! And now I know WHO and what's in it for them.

1 is his best's friends wife (ie the office manager) the other is the project manager on his big project. Neither one of them wants to keep him they just want the game.

That would explain everything! It's a power game between these 2 women and he's going along for the high!

Well that puts a whole new spin on this for me! Now I know where the insurance thing is coming from and all the other stuff that had me freaked! NOW IT MAKE COMPLETE SENSE!

Wait till I copy this - his best friend was on the floor. Saying Lori's checking up on you and OW. The wife who should have thought this was hysterically amuzing was DEAD SILENT!

I ROCKED some people yesterday! There is NO DOUBT about it!

BS 42 - 00 Lucy here
bombzilla 52 (my problem child)
4 kids (newborn - 6)
DDay 2/8/05 - that's when I actually saw the light! Or better known as the day the BOMB dropped!

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kschuff ( member #5522) posted at 7:52 PM on Wednesday, February 9th, 2005

Does he realize that you have the tape? Was all this taped while he was in the car!

Good for you...I hope it gives you all the help that you need!

Divorce Final 6/5/08
Remarried 6/21/2011 <3

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Basic_Guy ( member #4396) posted at 7:58 PM on Wednesday, February 9th, 2005

Wait....hold the phone.....let me get this straight.....

He found out that it was a recorder and not a bomb right?

And he didn't erase anything?.....

I mean I could understand if he was still concerned that it might be a bomb...but it seems to me that once he found out that it was a recorder and not a bomb....he would have hit that little button that says.......erase........

Is it possible that he has suffered a blunt tramma blow to the head in the last week or two that you may not have been told about?

Courage does not always come with blinding flashes of light....sometimes you only notice it after it passes...

My patron saint is a-fighting with a ghost
He's always off somewhere when I need him most.

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 dazed*n*confused (original poster member #6298) posted at 7:59 PM on Wednesday, February 9th, 2005

Now I can fight the good fight! I've got to craft this plan carefully! Now that I know what and who I'm up against I may actually have a fighting chance here!

BECAUSE HE'S SUCH A SCHMUCK NEITHER ONE WANTS HIM AS A KEEPER! Don't know why I do either but that will take years of therapy to figure out!

Now that I know my security is not threatened I can get down to work!

OP 1 - no way she wants to loose her husband! She will loose everything!

OP 2 - doesn't want him - child support x 5 and alimony. She wants a high ticket guy with money and wants to be kept. He can't afford to do that!

OP 1 & 2 used to be best friends and had a major falling out shortly after I told OP 1 that I though he was fooling around with OP 2....

I've know OP 1 for almost 20 years and I should have seen this coming! I knew she was having trouble with her husband!

OP 1 got him a company cell, credit card, big raise, huge christmas bonus that hinged on him buying a new wardrobe. NOW I GET IT!

BS 42 - 00 Lucy here
bombzilla 52 (my problem child)
4 kids (newborn - 6)
DDay 2/8/05 - that's when I actually saw the light! Or better known as the day the BOMB dropped!

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cheerleader ( member #3246) posted at 7:59 PM on Wednesday, February 9th, 2005

I HAVE LAUGHED SO MUCH MY FACE HURTS...

dazed..good for you...i like the ticking clock...spill water outside the shower...little things to make him go hmmmmm

Well f@#$ me running, sometimes it isnt worth the effort to chew thru the restraints!
Where the is hope there is love.Where there is love there is life.Life is for living

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 dazed*n*confused (original poster member #6298) posted at 8:02 PM on Wednesday, February 9th, 2005

OH BOY....Wait till they see what I have in store for them! BAHAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA

Man have I got a plan!

BS 42 - 00 Lucy here
bombzilla 52 (my problem child)
4 kids (newborn - 6)
DDay 2/8/05 - that's when I actually saw the light! Or better known as the day the BOMB dropped!

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girlalmostgone ( member #4867) posted at 8:09 PM on Wednesday, February 9th, 2005

OMG!

I could not stop laughing and snorting.. I am now late getting little miss cranky pants!!

Thought it was a bomb.. didn't erase the tape..

Anyone else thinking of "Mom and Dad save the Earth"

Remember the 'light bomb' the one that all of the army picked up one by one and blew up??

Love is no assignment for cowards. Ovid

I just really feel like I am a hamster running on the wheel.. and I am ready to get off the wheel, and try running around in the hamster ball.. kinda like a free range chicken.

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 dazed*n*confused (original poster member #6298) posted at 8:10 PM on Wednesday, February 9th, 2005

Now get this setup...how perfect is this?

OP 1 - gets all the bills, cell phone, credit card, flowers you name it! They come to her desk she cuts the checks! No evidence. That would explain the post it I found in his desk as well.

Except he has to reimburse the company for stuff he did with OP 2. Yet another reason for the falling out between OP 1 & 2.

Does this make any sense to anyone other than me?

BS 42 - 00 Lucy here
bombzilla 52 (my problem child)
4 kids (newborn - 6)
DDay 2/8/05 - that's when I actually saw the light! Or better known as the day the BOMB dropped!

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Basic_Guy ( member #4396) posted at 8:13 PM on Wednesday, February 9th, 2005

"Now I can fight the good fight! I've got to craft this plan carefully!".......ummmm...dazed...no you may not have to be all that carefull.....

Ok...no offence...but....I think any old plan might just get past these people.....

Courage does not always come with blinding flashes of light....sometimes you only notice it after it passes...

My patron saint is a-fighting with a ghost
He's always off somewhere when I need him most.

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Justlife ( member #3094) posted at 8:14 PM on Wednesday, February 9th, 2005

I hope your plan includes telling OP1's husband.

You heard all that on the recorder interesting hmmmmm(rubbing chin)

I think your husband is an idiot for leaving it there for you to hear. REALIZE the recorder is yours and anything on it.....so do not let him fool you into returning it.

LIKE I said be a hard ass now you call the shots.....

Read my old response..... Tell her husband so she can get punished as well.

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