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EvolvingSoul ( Guide #29972) posted at 7:46 AM on Friday, November 10th, 2017

Another bump.

Me: WS (60)Him: Shards (55)D-day: June 6, 2010Last voluntary AP contact: June 23, 2010NC Letter sent: 3/9/11

We’re going to make it.

posts: 2531   ·   registered: Oct. 29th, 2010   ·   location: The far shore.
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JulieMarie ( member #60683) posted at 12:37 PM on Friday, November 10th, 2017

I read this when I first came to SI just reading not really absorbing (partly because I was disoriented at being caught and partly because I was reading so much as a way to find the magic cure for my husband) I reread and absorbed it this time around so thank you whoever put this at the top. I needed this so bad today.

Me: 37 WW
Him: 44 BH
DDay 1: 05/09/2012
DDay 2: 09/09/2017
DS: 24,18,13,12
DD: 22
DG: 3

"She wears her strength and darkness equally well, the girl has always been half goddess, half hell"

posts: 162   ·   registered: Sep. 18th, 2017   ·   location:
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Jimmy1962 ( member #59923) posted at 1:42 AM on Tuesday, November 14th, 2017

Great post!

DDay 7-20-17 Found about 10 month physical affair that my wife had back in 97 & 98
I thought that I was going to die!
Trying to reconcile.
Infidelity is to marriage as Roundup is to plants.

posts: 632   ·   registered: Jul. 31st, 2017   ·   location: Kentucky
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EvolvingSoul ( Guide #29972) posted at 10:37 PM on Sunday, December 3rd, 2017

Bumped for Coffeecoffee

Me: WS (60)Him: Shards (55)D-day: June 6, 2010Last voluntary AP contact: June 23, 2010NC Letter sent: 3/9/11

We’re going to make it.

posts: 2531   ·   registered: Oct. 29th, 2010   ·   location: The far shore.
id 8039153
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EvolvingSoul ( Guide #29972) posted at 4:41 PM on Tuesday, December 5th, 2017

Bumped for Pointblank

Me: WS (60)Him: Shards (55)D-day: June 6, 2010Last voluntary AP contact: June 23, 2010NC Letter sent: 3/9/11

We’re going to make it.

posts: 2531   ·   registered: Oct. 29th, 2010   ·   location: The far shore.
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BSisRight ( member #61549) posted at 5:27 PM on Tuesday, December 5th, 2017

BS here. This post really hit me.

I can't imagine my WH ever doing most of the things on that list sincerely. He's all about the deflecting.

I hope many of the WS's here do actually follow through with this.

posts: 131   ·   registered: Nov. 24th, 2017
id 8040524
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EvolvingSoul ( Guide #29972) posted at 3:29 AM on Saturday, December 9th, 2017

Bumped for Disgraced

Me: WS (60)Him: Shards (55)D-day: June 6, 2010Last voluntary AP contact: June 23, 2010NC Letter sent: 3/9/11

We’re going to make it.

posts: 2531   ·   registered: Oct. 29th, 2010   ·   location: The far shore.
id 8043277
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EvolvingSoul ( Guide #29972) posted at 1:05 AM on Wednesday, December 20th, 2017

Bumped for Unforgiven1OH

Me: WS (60)Him: Shards (55)D-day: June 6, 2010Last voluntary AP contact: June 23, 2010NC Letter sent: 3/9/11

We’re going to make it.

posts: 2531   ·   registered: Oct. 29th, 2010   ·   location: The far shore.
id 8051283
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EvolvingSoul ( Guide #29972) posted at 4:26 AM on Saturday, December 23rd, 2017

Bumped for JAYJ1

Me: WS (60)Him: Shards (55)D-day: June 6, 2010Last voluntary AP contact: June 23, 2010NC Letter sent: 3/9/11

We’re going to make it.

posts: 2531   ·   registered: Oct. 29th, 2010   ·   location: The far shore.
id 8053991
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mojorisin ( new member #61886) posted at 1:50 AM on Wednesday, December 27th, 2017

I appreciate that this keeps getting bumped as it is a great reminder for all waywards like myself. Its also unfortunate that the need to bump it never ends!

WH (me) - 49
BH - 46
D-Day: 29 Oct.17
TT: Completely revealed everything 9 Dec. and 13 Dec.
You're the best thing about me
The best things are easy to destroy

posts: 14   ·   registered: Dec. 18th, 2017   ·   location: Missouri
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EvolvingSoul ( Guide #29972) posted at 11:48 PM on Sunday, December 31st, 2017

Bumped for Badhusban

Me: WS (60)Him: Shards (55)D-day: June 6, 2010Last voluntary AP contact: June 23, 2010NC Letter sent: 3/9/11

We’re going to make it.

posts: 2531   ·   registered: Oct. 29th, 2010   ·   location: The far shore.
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Mamacesto ( member #61938) posted at 3:59 PM on Monday, January 1st, 2018

Thank you for posting this Hufi-Pufi. I am printing it out for my WH to read. May even highlight some of it :)

Me - BW -51 (at time of A)
WH - 59 (at time of A)
OW - 42 (at time of A)
D-Day #1 EA/PA 10-02-17;
D-Day #2 EA 10-14-18
M - 24 yrs (at time of A)
...attempting R

posts: 280   ·   registered: Dec. 23rd, 2017   ·   location: Midwest
id 8060179
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EvolvingSoul ( Guide #29972) posted at 1:53 AM on Thursday, January 4th, 2018

Bumped for RemorsefulSpouse

Me: WS (60)Him: Shards (55)D-day: June 6, 2010Last voluntary AP contact: June 23, 2010NC Letter sent: 3/9/11

We’re going to make it.

posts: 2531   ·   registered: Oct. 29th, 2010   ·   location: The far shore.
id 8062467
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EvolvingSoul ( Guide #29972) posted at 10:08 PM on Thursday, January 11th, 2018

Bumped for Confused987

Me: WS (60)Him: Shards (55)D-day: June 6, 2010Last voluntary AP contact: June 23, 2010NC Letter sent: 3/9/11

We’re going to make it.

posts: 2531   ·   registered: Oct. 29th, 2010   ·   location: The far shore.
id 8068931
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EvolvingSoul ( Guide #29972) posted at 1:19 AM on Saturday, January 13th, 2018

Bumped for StupidandBroken

Me: WS (60)Him: Shards (55)D-day: June 6, 2010Last voluntary AP contact: June 23, 2010NC Letter sent: 3/9/11

We’re going to make it.

posts: 2531   ·   registered: Oct. 29th, 2010   ·   location: The far shore.
id 8069881
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EvolvingSoul ( Guide #29972) posted at 3:37 AM on Monday, January 15th, 2018

Bumped for DrowningInBlue

Me: WS (60)Him: Shards (55)D-day: June 6, 2010Last voluntary AP contact: June 23, 2010NC Letter sent: 3/9/11

We’re going to make it.

posts: 2531   ·   registered: Oct. 29th, 2010   ·   location: The far shore.
id 8070974
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EvolvingSoul ( Guide #29972) posted at 4:36 AM on Thursday, January 25th, 2018

Bumped for Rogue0719

Me: WS (60)Him: Shards (55)D-day: June 6, 2010Last voluntary AP contact: June 23, 2010NC Letter sent: 3/9/11

We’re going to make it.

posts: 2531   ·   registered: Oct. 29th, 2010   ·   location: The far shore.
id 8078657
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EvolvingSoul ( Guide #29972) posted at 12:14 AM on Saturday, January 27th, 2018

bumped for Scrabble

Me: WS (60)Him: Shards (55)D-day: June 6, 2010Last voluntary AP contact: June 23, 2010NC Letter sent: 3/9/11

We’re going to make it.

posts: 2531   ·   registered: Oct. 29th, 2010   ·   location: The far shore.
id 8080094
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EvolvingSoul ( Guide #29972) posted at 4:09 AM on Saturday, January 27th, 2018

Bumped for RepentantPaladin.

Me: WS (60)Him: Shards (55)D-day: June 6, 2010Last voluntary AP contact: June 23, 2010NC Letter sent: 3/9/11

We’re going to make it.

posts: 2531   ·   registered: Oct. 29th, 2010   ·   location: The far shore.
id 8080189
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EvolvingSoul ( Guide #29972) posted at 5:50 PM on Saturday, January 27th, 2018

Bump for townes81.

Me: WS (60)Him: Shards (55)D-day: June 6, 2010Last voluntary AP contact: June 23, 2010NC Letter sent: 3/9/11

We’re going to make it.

posts: 2531   ·   registered: Oct. 29th, 2010   ·   location: The far shore.
id 8080405
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