purplebreeze ( member #31611) posted at 12:25 AM on Friday, May 13th, 2011
Not exactly a dating site, but another site is adultism.com It allows people to message each other, view videos, pictures etc of nude and sex. People can take the messaging to a hook up if they want. It is a very explicit xxx place. It is where WH found his little OW.
Jamie ( member #155) posted at 12:44 AM on Saturday, July 23rd, 2011
For AT&T online statement users: there is a feature where you can track if a name and phone # match, click a name and a box will appear to allow you to set an alias for that #.
Broken613 ( member #17670) posted at 8:46 AM on Thursday, July 28th, 2011
Not sure if this has been mentioned or not, but there are several sites/forums dedicated to "hobbying" (seeing escorts). Reviews, etc are all there - if you have a good idea of your spouses handles you can try searching those.
Especially for Canadians - terb.ca is for the TO area and perb.ca is for the Vancouver area.
A thing to keep in mind is several 'agencies' will have a billing company so that the people who pay with credit cards can hide the costs. IE: a TO escort service does it under a crafting company so it looks harmless on the bill.
Don't gamble with what you can't afford to lose.
D-Day - December 18th, 2007
Real D-Day - May 24th, 2014
More lies in months that followed
sable ( member #32869) posted at 2:23 PM on Sunday, August 7th, 2011
isearch.com is a great site for looking up information.
I'm the BW. M 10+ yrs, 1 child. Trying to R
DD 1: 7/18/11 Sexting/EA, caught before it went PA. Met OW#1 on AM
DD2: 5/31/13 - 6/1/13 2-Day PA with OW#2. Claimed she was a therapist and knew he was married.
sable ( member #32869) posted at 2:09 AM on Monday, August 29th, 2011
Just found a free people search engine. It even helps you check Foursquare.
http://www.kgbpeople.com/
I'm the BW. M 10+ yrs, 1 child. Trying to R
DD 1: 7/18/11 Sexting/EA, caught before it went PA. Met OW#1 on AM
DD2: 5/31/13 - 6/1/13 2-Day PA with OW#2. Claimed she was a therapist and knew he was married.
Blindsided37 ( member #25963) posted at 6:51 PM on Wednesday, October 12th, 2011
I was doublechecking that my voter registration was up to date on my county bd of elections site. There's a link to: "Am I registered?" So I put in my name. My address pops up along with my birth year.
I've been trying to verify OW's age so I put her info in(gotta know 1st and last names & correct county) and voila! she's 2 yrs older than she claims. 
WS: Him (62)BS: Me (59)
Married 36 yrs - 2 Grown children
DDay: May 23,09 DDay #2: 9/09
R: Slowly...
PlainsGirl29 ( member #33520) posted at 9:15 PM on Tuesday, November 1st, 2011
http://www.meetmoi.com/welcome;jsessionid=560C8B3619169A535D83612AD687F1A3.node2
http://www.datehookup.com/
a couple more dating sites/apps that WH is/has used to add to the list
Epiphany ( member #25498) posted at 5:14 PM on Wednesday, November 9th, 2011
I took my WS sim card out of his blackberry and put it in my iphone and was able to see new text messages and voicemail that he hadn't checked yet. Not sure if this will work for you, but it was a nice surprise for me!
mom of 2 ( member #11214) posted at 7:40 PM on Sunday, January 8th, 2012
Wanted to verify under "License Plate lookup" I used this site from this thread back in May 2011.
www.burbridgepi.com/html/license_plate_search_lookup.html
Fast and accurate results so definitely leave it on the list! Thanks!
Me: BW
Divorced after 23 years of M thanks to XH's truth trickle.
Status: Recovering and healing. It's going to be a long hard road.
Update November 2013: It only took seven years but I finally turned a corner. :)
2_4giving4_2long ( member #34008) posted at 7:37 PM on Saturday, January 28th, 2012
Great TIP!!!!!
I just found out that a hunting dog GPS is cheaper and it can be hidden easily. The good thing about this is the info goes right to your cell phone. It uses Google map and you can zoom in.
Me 52
He 49
DDay 11/06/11
Married 23 years
2 adult children.
painpaingoaway ( member #27196) posted at 10:04 PM on Saturday, January 28th, 2012
hunting dog GPS is cheaper and it can be hidden easily.
That. is.AWESOME!!!!!
Those of us with H's that hunt will probably be the only ones that see the 'beauty' in that little gem! 
D-Day June 2009
Watch my movie: "My wayward husband's adventures in STD land":
Episode 1: youtu.be/9Jv0-d_CdYc
Episode 2: http://m.youtube.com/watch?v=8Tz822H82Gk
jjct ( member #17484) posted at 10:12 AM on Saturday, May 5th, 2012
Imatfault found an image search engine that may have investigative potential:
https://tineye.com
There is a plugin too.
It adds an option to search tineye (which searches the internet) for an image...all you do is right click over any image...
then, it looks like tineye lists all the other sites the image has been used, providing clickable links.
lost family ( member #32578) posted at 8:02 AM on Friday, May 11th, 2012
This part of the SI is absolutely amazing!!!!
I cannot believe how much work has gone into putting all the info here.
Thank you, thank you, thank you!!!!!
Dead_nt_sleeping ( member #35263) posted at 2:43 PM on Tuesday, December 4th, 2012
I have started my own investigative blog once I figured out this was the only way to confront my WS. I *just now* discover this forum <face palm>
Would anyone be interested in taking a look at my site to review the content? So far i tried tackling retrieving deleted skype messages from the free page file of the main.db database as well as searching through client-side browser storage. I would love constructive feedback!
www.betrayedspousesclub.blogspot.com
Thanks in advance!
BS - DDay: 2/7/12. R1: 1/14/12, R2: 2/7/12, R3: 2/29/12
Married 8, together 15, 2 amazing pre-school age kids
My amateur computer forensics blog: http://betrayedspousesclub.blogspot.com/
Issaquah ( member #34484) posted at 7:26 PM on Thursday, January 17th, 2013
iPhone search for deleted texts and emails.
Not sure if this has been posted but I found a way to search for deleted emails and texts on iphone4 as long as it hasn't been recently synced to iTunes. If you go into mode, then settings, then general, tap on spotlight search. Once in tspotlight search tap on messages and email. Exit settings. Swipe the "pages" until you get to "search the phone" page. Enter in keywords that you think they might use (i.e.love, motel, meet, kiss, etc), the AP's name, email name, etc the deleted texts or emails with those keywords will pop-up. That's how I found WH's deleted emails - 100's of them. Once you're done, go back to the settings and remove those from the seach so your WS doesn't notice. 
BS - Me, 45
ExWS - Husband, 47 SA dx in March 2013
T-25, M-21 college sweethearts
Multiple DDays / OWs since 1999
Most recent DDay 8-12
Divorced
Betrayed444 ( member #38389) posted at 2:30 PM on Thursday, April 11th, 2013
Wow it worked however I can only read the first few words and can't call up the whole text maybe because they had been deleted. This showed me that deleted texts are still actually on the phone but how to get them?
No12turn2 ( member #40996) posted at 6:31 PM on Wednesday, January 8th, 2014
Iphone tip:
WS can enable age restrictions for certain apps and they will not show up on the home pages. My WS did this with KIK and I never even saw it
Me/BS 35
WW 32
M 12 yrs 2 Girls 10 & 7
Phone/Cyber Affairs (3 D-Days)
Status: DIVORCED 4/24/2014
No one can make you feel inferior without your consent.
HUFI-PUFI ( member #25460) posted at 4:55 PM on Sunday, March 9th, 2014
It feels weird doing this 
but I accidentally ran into this website this morning (keywords were websites that support the Wayward spouse) and thought it might be helpful here in this forum.
http://www.cheatingspousepi.com/
Don’t listen to your head, it’s easily confused. Don’t listen to your heart, its fickle. Listen to your soul, God doesn't steer you wrong.
shiftingsand ( member #43656) posted at 2:36 AM on Saturday, August 30th, 2014
This link no longer works:
http://www.scroogle.org/cgi-bin/scraper.htm
"This wasn't about you. Or your looks. Or hers. There was no contest and she did not "win." He's just insecure or an asshole or an insecure asshole." Plan C.
shiftingsand ( member #43656) posted at 3:37 AM on Saturday, August 30th, 2014
This is a good one for looking up name with address from a phone number or vice versa - free too...
http://number2name.com
"This wasn't about you. Or your looks. Or hers. There was no contest and she did not "win." He's just insecure or an asshole or an insecure asshole." Plan C.
