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SCORNED ( member #6301) posted at 9:26 AM on Saturday, August 30th, 2014

New website for checking phone numbers

"The cruelest lies are often told in silence."

Robert Louis Stevenson

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gotcha ( member #44304) posted at 3:47 PM on Monday, September 15th, 2014

Iphone tip: and

Can see deleted texts (not imessages), browsing history, call history, whatsapp texts, kik texts (I believe), location of phone through icloud updates... so no jailbreaking or physical access to phone required.

All you need to have is the apple ID login and password.

It does cost, but teensafe gives you a 10 day free trial and is cheaper than PhoneSheriff I believe.

Also... is not a porn site, as listed on the first page of this thread.

Me - 27 BS
Him - 26, SAWH
DS, 9 months
Married Aug 2013, together for 6 years prior
DDay- June 25th 2014
Countless backpage escorts in 1st year of marriage, pre-M affairs and flings (just finding out), web cam girls, you name it.

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SCORNED ( member #6301) posted at 9:02 AM on Saturday, January 10th, 2015

Another good site for checking phone numbers , email addresses, etc -

"The cruelest lies are often told in silence."

Robert Louis Stevenson

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crushedinpa ( member #46787) posted at 2:34 PM on Monday, March 2nd, 2015

Any tips for getting deleted text messages off an Iphone 6 (texts from two months ago)??? I tried Dr. Fone, am not seeing the deleted texts I am looking for. If he imessages are they gone? He uses my apple ID on his iphone. He does not back up to Icloud. The last time he plugged into I tunes was start of December 14. Any tips how to recover these deleted texts to married OW?

Me 47: BS
Him 47: WS
M 22 yrs with 1 DD (age 17) and 13 year old twin DS
D-Day 1/28/2015 (1.5 mos. affair) EA/some PA (his TT story)
In R (I think)

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MellowYellow ( member #48368) posted at 9:43 PM on Friday, September 4th, 2015

I looked quickly and didn't see this... if you can't (or don't want) to do keylogger or tracker, you can atleast view DNS lookups by signing for and setting up house router for OPEN DNS service. (free family version should be fine). You have to change the IP address for DNS lok up to be that of Open DNS. They give good instructions on how to set up.

You also need to set up one PC in house to do the DNS updated

This allows you to see URL look ups from "private" browing (incognito browsing) that is done from a home network. Will not catch Phone lookups if phone is on celluar instead of wifi.

There is a downside. you get every freaking DNS lookup, and there are a crazy number of tracking cookies... But if you are patient, atleast you get idea of URLs that had DNS lookup.

MellowYellow Cause this name has nothing to do with me or how I feel. So far removed from it I can't tell you how far
DDay 06/15
Trying for R

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joannie ( member #42486) posted at 11:24 AM on Thursday, April 14th, 2016

Hello anyone know sites in France to break into cellphones...record messages...spyware not needing acess for phone etc.would be so grateful.

What a lot of going to try something's you have all written.thanks SI and members.

me BS 57
Him WS 56
Married 37 years 2 sons 5 grandchildren

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dfdxb ( member #72768) posted at 9:27 PM on Monday, March 9th, 2020

I found out my WH using the Find My Parents app. It was unintentional really but I installed it on my phone and my son's phone and realized you can listen in to their surroundings very clearly.

My WH has a second personal phone aside from his work phone that he uses less but nevertheless it is always with him. He was always very lax with it and I needed to use it one day for online banking and installed the app too. Figured if he noticed I'd just say it's to track our son.

4days later was DDay. I listened in while using another phone to record his call with AP so I had evidence.

If your partner doesn't have another phone you could get a cheap prepaid and install it there

BW-dday Sept 12 2019
EA for 6 months
PA other women 12 months. (actually it's been years)
Filed for divorce
"Life is a balance between holding on, and letting go.." Rumi

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