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Bonetired ( member #78518) posted at 3:53 PM on Monday, April 19th, 2021
LadyG..😂the ugly one.OMG I am rolling.I remember when my son came with me to pick up my daughter.He was 13 at the time.My daughter was past 1 year not quite 2 .She was there for the hand off.After retrieving my daughter my son sat quietly in the passengers seat(quiet is rare for him)He looked perplexed and I could tell he was thinking about something.Then out of the silence he says."He left you for her??? " I reminded him we have a coparent relationship and I am getting along with her.His response was genuine."Yeah...but...I'm just saying." Gesturing with his hands as she is walking back into the house.He shook his head in disbelief.Stunned into silence a rare moment indeed.I smiled but was laughing on the inside.It made my day.
20yrsagoBS (original poster member #55272) posted at 4:31 PM on Monday, April 19th, 2021
Our kids know WH is a Cheater.
For quite some time, they were Team Dad, believing his BS
Then, slowly over time, they came to realize HE has a big problem with being truthful and faithful. It isn’t how I have handled it.
In addition, our DD looked the OW(s) up on Facebook and was disgusted by them
WH got an earful from her on cheating on her Mom with dogs
And we love our actual fur babies
But his conquests in APs? Nope
BW, 54 WH 53 When you lie down with dogs, you wake up with fleas
Chaos ( member #61031) posted at 5:26 PM on Monday, April 19th, 2021
While hindsight is always 20/20.
I should have told OBS right away. Not telling him [and yadda yadda yadda LTA underground and a subsequent DDay] is one of my biggest regrets not only on DDays but in life.
I am humbled that when I did have to tell him 15 months later, and apologize for keeping that secret, he gave me grace.
BS-me/WH-4.5yrLTA Married 2+ decades-2 adult children. Multiple DDays w/same LAP until I told OBS 2018- Cease & Desist sent spring 2021 "Hello–My name is Chaos–You f***ed my husband-Prepare to Die!"
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