Skan ( member #35812) posted at 4:01 PM on Saturday, July 6th, 2013
Imagine a ship trying to set sail while towing an anchor. Cutting free is not a gift to the anchor. You must release that burden, not because the anchor is worthy, but because the ship is.
D-Day, June 10, 2012
kernel ( member #27035) posted at 2:47 AM on Sunday, July 14th, 2013
"On particularly rough days when I'm sure I can't possibly endure, I like to remind myself that my track record for getting through bad days so far is 100% and that's pretty good."
Jpapageorge ( member #31800) posted at 9:46 PM on Saturday, July 20th, 2013
"Either get busy livin' or get busy dyin'." (and I prefer to live)
"Shame on me for kissing you with my eyes closed."
Spectemur agendo.
Me: FBBF
pmal64 ( member #13551) posted at 2:59 PM on Monday, July 22nd, 2013
.:~*~:. .:~*~:..:~*~:. .:~*~:..:~*~:. .:~*~:. .:~*~:..:~*~:.
BS-me-55
WH -60
"when they show you who they are, believe them"
AFrayedKnot ( member #36622) posted at 2:12 AM on Thursday, July 25th, 2013
BS 48fWS 44 (SurprisinglyOkay)DsD DSA whole bunch of shit that got a lot worse before it got better."Knowing is half the battle"
HurtButHopeful? ( member #25144) posted at 1:08 AM on Tuesday, July 30th, 2013
Resources for R:
His Needs Her Needs, by Dr. Willard Harley
Love Busters, by Dr. Willard Harley
(for husbands) Becoming the Ultimate Husband, by Reb Bradley
Skan ( member #35812) posted at 6:56 PM on Saturday, August 3rd, 2013
Imagine a ship trying to set sail while towing an anchor. Cutting free is not a gift to the anchor. You must release that burden, not because the anchor is worthy, but because the ship is.
D-Day, June 10, 2012
Pedalguy4800 ( new member #40140) posted at 7:43 AM on Sunday, August 4th, 2013
Me-BS 37
Her-WS 34
D-Day July 21, 2013
bufffalo ( member #21854) posted at 4:58 AM on Tuesday, August 6th, 2013
kernel ( member #27035) posted at 3:14 AM on Saturday, August 10th, 2013
"On particularly rough days when I'm sure I can't possibly endure, I like to remind myself that my track record for getting through bad days so far is 100% and that's pretty good."
kernel ( member #27035) posted at 3:48 AM on Monday, August 12th, 2013
"On particularly rough days when I'm sure I can't possibly endure, I like to remind myself that my track record for getting through bad days so far is 100% and that's pretty good."
Spelljean ( member #35624) posted at 2:30 AM on Tuesday, August 20th, 2013
WH: 41
me: BS, 45
Together 18 1/2 years, married 17
DDAY 8/2/12
OW: EA- friend of 4 months
Status: separated
jjct ( member #17484) posted at 12:59 AM on Tuesday, August 27th, 2013
fourever ( member #30631) posted at 3:15 AM on Tuesday, September 3rd, 2013
In R since shortly after DD.
Discovered what was right in front of him and nearly lost.
Always, tell the other BS! Always!
"It's hard to be in love when you can't tell lies"!
kernel ( member #27035) posted at 3:06 AM on Thursday, September 5th, 2013
"On particularly rough days when I'm sure I can't possibly endure, I like to remind myself that my track record for getting through bad days so far is 100% and that's pretty good."
Blackhair ( member #39451) posted at 4:39 AM on Friday, September 6th, 2013
M: 10 years both late 40s.
3 Children
DDay: April 2013
Legally separated on Oct 2013.
I am determined to fly even with broken wings and a broken heart!
Broken6 ( member #40347) posted at 2:58 AM on Saturday, September 7th, 2013
Bump. This should be a self help book. So good to read.
The grass isn't greener on the other side, it is greener where you water it.
Simple ( member #18814) posted at 6:18 PM on Friday, September 20th, 2013
Love is a choice.
True love is harder to come by than soul mates. True love requires work.
Ignorance can be cured with knowledge. There is no cure for being an idiot.
-October 3, 2007
-February 18, 2022
forlornheart ( member #40726) posted at 2:24 AM on Saturday, September 21st, 2013
Must keep and reread daily! Amazing information in here!
Me: 48- BW
Him: 45-WH-chronic cheater, PA and EA
Current Her: Mid to late 30's fatassed, no necked, troglodyte
D Day: August 23, 2013
Separated: August 23, 2013
Camalus ( member #40199) posted at 6:41 PM on Tuesday, September 24th, 2013
Bumping because this is a 'must read'. 
Me–BS age 61
Her -- WS age 59
Married for 34 years
One child, 30yrs
Her 'A' 1994(?) through 1998
D-Day 7/4/2013 Yes, I didn't find out for almost 15 years... but the pain is just as bad as if she were with him last week.
