StillLivin ( member #40229) posted at 6:01 AM on Monday, February 3rd, 2025
Although, I still believe he was justified initially in his anger, this is so beyond acceptable. Now, he's just drama and wasted energy. Please value your peace of mind and start getting yourself ready to walk away from him. I know this is not what you want to hear. Life is too short to tolerate people making you miserable. I'm sorry. I really am.
"Bitch please a good man can't be stolen." ROFLMAO - SBB: 7/2/2014
nekorb (original poster member #40306) posted at 10:01 PM on Monday, February 3rd, 2025
Thanks StillLivin.
Another update:
This morning before he left I went downstairs to say goodbye (I wfh) and he apologized profusely, said he was acting like a d**k, wished he could take everything back, apologized again, said he loves me and wants to be with me and wishes he could pretend it never happened, but knows that he/we can’t. He was teary (which I’ve only seen 3-4x total in 8.5 years).
I thanked him and said I needed to hear that, but that I’m still terribly hurt and he apologized again.
So, time will tell.
Me: BS 44; Him: WH 47 M - 22 Years
D-day: 7/2013; D filed 7/2014; Divorced 7-27-16
...the WS affair starts off in a dreamland where everything is all Golly, Wow! and Meant To Be! and Soul Mates drop from the trees to frolic in the mist. -devotedman
StillLivin ( member #40229) posted at 7:36 AM on Tuesday, February 4th, 2025
The way he's treating you isn't right, regardless if his crocodile tears. He has some work to do on himself, and you can't do it for him. Fwiw, my advice remains the same. Start detaching and getting your ducks in a row to a break up. If he gets his head out of his ass, that's great, but you do you in the meantime.
"Bitch please a good man can't be stolen." ROFLMAO - SBB: 7/2/2014
nekorb (original poster member #40306) posted at 11:12 AM on Tuesday, February 4th, 2025
Yeah. I know. :(
There’s going to have to be a conversation.
Me: BS 44; Him: WH 47 M - 22 Years
D-day: 7/2013; D filed 7/2014; Divorced 7-27-16
...the WS affair starts off in a dreamland where everything is all Golly, Wow! and Meant To Be! and Soul Mates drop from the trees to frolic in the mist. -devotedman
