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WH’s last AP’s husband is currently dying from cancer.

Per the AP, her husband was in on their dastardly plan to get her pregnant by my husband, thereby gaining a baby that my WH would have to supply child support for, and eliminating adoption costs for them.

Since I didn’t have the opportunity to ask him directly if he was a party in the destruction of my marriage, I am kinda glad?

But, I also wonder if maybe he wasn’t privy to the cheating?

Cheers !

..'How did I miss this thread back in june??'

Whenever stories about OMs dying or getting killed are posted, I usually jump into the conversation.

Learning of his demise, while 3 years after his death, was the happiest day of my life ! ...I now had a grave to piss on. He's parked at Mount Pleasant cemetery Toronto awaiting my next visit!! My profile story might interest you.

smy

Houseofplane.. I so hear and understand precisely where you're coming from!
As some may know from my posts, the OM was a colorectal surgeon, a Resident with privileges ( and wow that's an emotionally charged word for me) at the hospital where my RN wife worked exactly fifty years ago. He was well known as a married serial adulterer with three children who modeled himself on the Hawkeye Mash lothario model of promiscuity who screwed just bout every willing nurse, single or married whom he convinced to come up to his office suite, complete with twin bedrooms on the hospital premises.. in itself I find this absolutely amazing that this was never monitored by the management.
This MDhole dropped my wife about six months after Iimpregnating her with the child ( pre Roe) which she gave birth to and proceeded to pass off as my progeny in a deftly executed piece of paternity fraud I only discovered ten weeks ago.
It gave me great satisfaction then, to also discover he had died in 2007 from an aggressive neuroendocrinal form of prostate cancer..this after a lot of web research which led me to a long obituary published in the local paper of the California seaside town where he retired.
I admit to being obsessed with finding as much as possible about the man who derailed my marriage and who has caused me so much intense pain. I checked county records for property data and now have Google earth screen shots if his opulent beach front property, I know so much more about the another than is probably good for my mental equilibrium, UT u can't let go.I can't possibly his grave because the Neptune Society scattered his ashes in the Pacific Ocean, but I curse reread his obituary at least once a week with a grim quiet satisfaction.
Incidentally, I learned that frequently a man who refuses the reality of prostate cancer especially if he dreads losing his ability to perform after surgical or chemical castration, declines treatment, not a good idea.
Also there is a body of evidence that both excessive ejaculation and multiple sexual partners over a very Kong period increases the probability of getting prostate cancer, exposure to multiple stew being more likely too..and this is seen as a likely trigger of this cancer as the immune system decreases in old age .Scant recompense for what he did to me, and my wife..albeit illing as she was..but good to know nonetheless.

OldBeachOwl,

Although it is likely too late try to sue OM estate, also inform his family.

When OM3 died, I went to his funeral to size up his family, never met him in person though.

Congratulations!!