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atreides ( member #44180) posted at 4:06 AM on Saturday, August 22nd, 2015

For questions about sites that will reveal the data. Highly unlikely. Lawsuits are to follow both against and in defense of AM. We are talking about private information stolen for sale and the likelihood of a site staying online without any real revenue wont last long. They are already getting cease and desist letters from AM.

Just follow the directions to download the torrent, page 10.

As for trustily and others, THEY WILL SEND AN EMAIL to the account EMAIL.

There are a lot of innocent people that will get affected, very true as one user posted..

For those that want to know the spent money on AM, you have to download the files and the instructions i posted above.

You have to go to the credit transaction files and try and guess a date range of the purchase because each day has its own transaction file.

OR search your own CC history ALM media and etc.

But they do contain full name of CC, billing address and last 4

[This message edited by atreides at 10:10 PM, August 21st (Friday)]

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DespondentOne ( new member #49138) posted at 4:57 AM on Saturday, August 22nd, 2015

I'm currently mining through the data (THANK YOU so much for the instructions!) and I'm wondering if anyone has paid cheaterleak.com for the info? Or if anyone knows if there is any harm in doing so?

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Tearsoflove ( member #8271) posted at 5:02 AM on Saturday, August 22nd, 2015

I figured out a way to search all the credit card transactions at once. FYI.

"Just because I don't care doesn't mean I don't understand." ~Homer Simpson

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Mom1087 ( new member #49109) posted at 5:02 AM on Saturday, August 22nd, 2015

Will downloading this file give you access to phone numbers? I don't know the other emails he had but, I know he used his cell number for communicating with people he met on the AM sights. If that's all I have to go on is it worth the time to download this stuff?

DDay - I don't remember, about 10 yrs. ago.
me = BS, SAHM
him = WS

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Ambergray ( member #40778) posted at 5:25 AM on Saturday, August 22nd, 2015

Does trustify only send an email if that address was compromised? I searched my address just to make sure and it was of course not compromised but I did not get an email.

Me-40
WH-40
Dday June 2013



"What lies behind you and what lies in front of you, pales in comparison to what lies inside of you.” – Ralph Waldo Emerson

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MEETOO ( new member #49159) posted at 3:53 PM on Saturday, August 22nd, 2015

Really nobody is willing to make this searchable for all of us? I would pay some money to have a print of all dates/money spent etc. should I go to a Pc service store and pay somebody to download and search?

Btw I caught him on it 3 yrs ago, he said that chatting w bitches is not cheating, was not going to do it anymore bla bla bla

I need a print out to show him that life is short for dummies

Btw I was just thinking all these years how to get a hacker to do this. Now I hope they'll do it for all the other scummy sites.

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hopefulmother ( member #38790) posted at 5:50 PM on Saturday, August 22nd, 2015

Healingroad: I went to the link and read the write up on the CEO. Yep, made me want to puke. Happily married man with kids that just disgusts me.

"They will think about it the way I do. They will know and accept that it is a profession and not the way we live our lives."

There point of view on their lives with how they explain making a profit from other people's pain to their kids. Just garbage. Let God deal with them. They can't possibly get into the pearly gates with endorsing a site and creating one that all monogamy religions condone. There is no regret, there is no remorse, there is no repenting. Even the Pope asked them to stop. Just trash and sinful that money is worth that much to them. "We have an awesome M, so I don't give a shit what society does." attitude.

If KARMA does exist, there must be a waiting line outside their door. Perhaps this is it. Honestly if I were them I would be in hiding from some very angry loose cannon estranged bunny boilers out there.

Me-BW 44
WH-44 zugzwang
D-day 9-4-12
Major TT 8-14
Friends since 1993
Married 2004 with 2 children
My wedding band is a symbol of hope, forgiveness, love, and grace.

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unloved22 ( member #49157) posted at 6:24 PM on Saturday, August 22nd, 2015

I sort of hope he did get an email that said someone searched and found his email on the AM leak data. LOL. I can't imagine what he is thinking. I have not let on that I have thought anything about the AM stuff. I wish I could get on his email.

1st WH D-day after divorce (physical abuse caused divorce)
One child together (Elementary Age)
1st WH married his EA/PA
Married to 2nd husband with recent suspicions and triggering behavior.

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FoggedIn ( member #40329) posted at 6:54 PM on Saturday, August 22nd, 2015

No hits on the 3 email addresses I know about for WH. However he had 2 other burner accounts he deleted on DDay 1. One was an account he created as me so he could chat up F4F on CL. Used my photos also. I have no idea what that email was.

The only way I'll find out if he was on AM is downloading the torrent & hopefully search identifiable info.

I was late to the party with adult friend finder, I wish that lost hadn't gone dark.

Hugs to the new JFO crowd. Sorry you're here.

BW (40)
WH (55)
Blended family, 6 kids, 1 dil & i gd
Dday 1 8/10/13 PA ONS CL whore
DDay 2 8/15/15 -TT 3 Other PA w/escorts from 2004-2013? Not sure on dates. Status - No Clue!! Calling D attorney for advice

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jamie2015 ( member #48086) posted at 7:34 PM on Saturday, August 22nd, 2015

Hiya! Ok, here's the website I checked her out on:

https://ashley.cynic.al/

What's interesting is none of my husband's emails show up, so perhaps it is a fake website search but he didn't appear but she did.

Anyway - it's just nice to type to you - and thank you, and I appreciate it. Rough times...~Jamie

"If I cut you off, chances are, you handed me the scissors."
BS(me) 51
WS 56 (sex, massage parlor, Craig's list hookups, affairs, and porn addict)
M: March 2005
D-Day: May 27 2015

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LotusFlwr ( new member #40485) posted at 8:42 PM on Saturday, August 22nd, 2015

My email address is on there from checking on fWH right after d day. Cripes. Last thing in the world I need right now. I was right there when he looked. Idk how much he believes I'm telling the truth. Just when things were going good.

Hopefully nobody i know looks me up. Haven't heard anything. I doubt anybody will since I keep such a low profile everywhere but still.

Me: BS
Him:WS
Married: 15 years
D-day: 8/24/13
3/10/16

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healingroad ( member #41920) posted at 9:51 PM on Saturday, August 22nd, 2015

Noel Biderman's email dump is incomplete (93%) but legit. Mostly corporate stuff. Cue "banality of evil."

ETA: apparently the hackers also have photos and messages. Not released yet.

[This message edited by healingroad at 3:53 PM, August 22nd (Saturday)]

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whattheh ( member #40032) posted at 10:17 PM on Saturday, August 22nd, 2015

I searched using the link which allows email only search. Sadly when I searched I found fWHs secret email account showing as he had a profile.

My fWH deleted his email entirely before dDay so I have no way of truly knowing what it was but used what he has told me it was. I told him that it shows he had an AM profile which he has always denied. When I asked again to tell me his secret email he has switched the letters. This makes me think hes either lying about what his original email is or lying about AM. So I was able to create an email acct in gmail using the "new" one he gave me which means he never had this as email acct since google doesn't reuse accts.

So I'm assuming he had a profile but I would like to confirm since he claims he can't remember that site. I'm hoping to see the profile associated with his now deleted secret email and any credit card address or name information. Also seeing messages or emails and start end dates would be ideal if they become public. Sadly we can't use sites like trustify which require to send to email in ashley madison dump since google won't give us back his deleted secret email acct.

Can someone point me to which directions in this post which worked for them to be able to search by name and credit card? Is it the original post that I should follow regarding use of tor?

[This message edited by whattheh at 6:15 PM, August 22nd (Saturday)]

Retired & now in 60's-M 39 Yrs-DD 2013-TT for 3 yrs (new details incl there had been 3 more MOWs)--all this started with porn use for mid 50s WH (felt he was possessed)~~Cheating and aftermath is huge time waste with high opportunity cost~~

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luvedmypbear ( member #25690) posted at 11:14 PM on Saturday, August 22nd, 2015

Thanks for this

My ex is on there

luvedmypbear didn’t care what you thought. She knew she was a badass.

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nomoreblueskies ( member #41574) posted at 12:16 AM on Sunday, August 23rd, 2015

This worked for me and gave me much more detail than a simple yes/no

http://ashleymadison.sucks/

It's life, Jim, but not as we know it

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atreides ( member #44180) posted at 12:22 AM on Sunday, August 23rd, 2015

here is the thing with getting the data elsewhere, the data is stolen. we have to remember that, any company trying to profit from it in some manner is going to pay eventually and would be breaking the law to offer it as a pay service.

So the hopes of a legit means of having company x,y,z use this for a service or pay is not likely to happen and if it does, not for long. trustify and others are selling their own services as a response to the leak.

the 2nd leak has nothing to do with users and is an attack on the CEO.

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healingroad ( member #41920) posted at 12:28 AM on Sunday, August 23rd, 2015

PARTIAL LIST OF DOX INCLUDED IN CEO'S EMAIL DUMP

Scan of his drivers license

Scan of his auto insurance id card

Scan of a voided check

His bank account #'s

At least 1 of his cc #'s

His home address

Scan of his wife's drivers license

Scan of his wife's passport

His wife's SIN (Social Insurance Number)

His wife's home address

His wife's personal email address

His wife's home and cell phone #'s

His wife's investment account #'s

His wife's net worth (~$2.2million)

Transaction info for $2million to his "family trust"

Transaction info for $400k to his bank account

Daily revenue for AM/etc ($300k/day)

Detailed affiliate info for AM/etc

Excel spreadsheet of his and his wife's expenses for 2014 and 2013

His and his wife's wills + power of attorney documents

A lot of pictures of their 2 kids (poor kids)

Scan of their son's passport

Billboard of his wife modeling for Ashley Madison --> http://i.imgur.com/MKGA8ls.png | http://i.imgur.com/a3hDIpo.png O.o

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whattheh ( member #40032) posted at 12:46 AM on Sunday, August 23rd, 2015

Nomoreblueskies:

Thank you so much. The link u provided worked to give me more info.

I hope to dig for more details but its related to my fWH.

It gave me a screen name, email address, creation date and bithdate. The birthdate was close to his and city was our town.

Screenname was more like message...

[This message edited by whattheh at 6:54 PM, August 22nd (Saturday)]

Retired & now in 60's-M 39 Yrs-DD 2013-TT for 3 yrs (new details incl there had been 3 more MOWs)--all this started with porn use for mid 50s WH (felt he was possessed)~~Cheating and aftermath is huge time waste with high opportunity cost~~

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nomoreblueskies ( member #41574) posted at 1:06 AM on Sunday, August 23rd, 2015

Glad (but sorry) it was of help, Whattheh.

Exclown had shaved 7 years off his age and listed himself as slim (good try buddy!) but I could tell from the rest of the description that it was him. I feel calmer now. Hope you do too.

It's life, Jim, but not as we know it

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hoping2heal ( member #16738) posted at 1:23 AM on Sunday, August 23rd, 2015

Found his info on the AshleyMadisonSucks site, but only because I knew his secret username/email. Thank GOD he did not use his real name!!

In the information, it says "Status 2". Does anyone know what that means?

BS (me) - 38
FWH - 38
4 kids
'98 - PA/EA resulted in us separating
'06 - discovered he'd joined 6 married dating websites
'07 - discovered EA
'09 - FWH admits he's a sex addict -- now working on recovery!

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