Skan ( member #35812) posted at 5:36 PM on Saturday, January 5th, 2019
Imagine a ship trying to set sail while towing an anchor. Cutting free is not a gift to the anchor. You must release that burden, not because the anchor is worthy, but because the ship is.
D-Day, June 10, 2012
Edie ( member #26133) posted at 8:26 AM on Sunday, February 3rd, 2019
heartbroken_kk ( member #22722) posted at 7:04 PM on Saturday, February 16th, 2019
FBW then 46, XWHNPDPAFTG the destroyer of my entire life. D-Day 1 '99, D-Day 2,3,4,5,6... '09-'11, D '15. I fell apart. I put myself back together. Forgiveness isn't required. I'm happy and healthy now, and MY new life is good.
Noname2016 ( member #52245) posted at 1:59 AM on Wednesday, February 20th, 2019
I am so torn about what I am doing while doing ansoft 180. I am trying to focus on my studies (short term goal of a career certification) the most now and just detaching myself a little from WH ( I am preparing myself for a D bit haven’t decided anything as yet). WH tries to message and then expresses hurt when I don’t respond soon-ish to his messages or tries to kiss me (and I let him) and feels hurt over my not responding. I don’t have any words to express to him what it is I am doing and then I get confused about my own reasons for doing these things.
Me: 35(BS)
Him: 36 (WH)
DDay 1: 2016
DDay 2: 2019 (Different OW)
Edie ( member #26133) posted at 5:14 PM on Monday, March 18th, 2019
Edie ( member #26133) posted at 6:42 PM on Wednesday, April 10th, 2019
heartbroken_kk ( member #22722) posted at 2:25 AM on Sunday, April 28th, 2019
FBW then 46, XWHNPDPAFTG the destroyer of my entire life. D-Day 1 '99, D-Day 2,3,4,5,6... '09-'11, D '15. I fell apart. I put myself back together. Forgiveness isn't required. I'm happy and healthy now, and MY new life is good.
BearlyBreathing ( member #55075) posted at 8:42 PM on Saturday, June 1st, 2019
Me: BS 57 (49 on d-day)Him: *who cares ;-) *. D-Day 8/15/2016 LTA. Kinda liking my new life :-)
**horrible typist, lots of edits to correct. :-/ **
Chrysalis123 ( member #27148) posted at 11:19 AM on Thursday, June 27th, 2019
Someone I once loved gave me/ a box full of darkness/ It took me years to understand/ That this, too, was a gift. - Mary Oliver
Just for the record darling, not all positive changes feel positive in the beginning -S C Lourie
minusone ( member #50175) posted at 2:00 PM on Saturday, July 6th, 2019
"I did then what I knew how to do. Now that I know better, I do better". Maya Angelou
Chrysalis123 ( member #27148) posted at 3:03 PM on Tuesday, July 23rd, 2019
Someone I once loved gave me/ a box full of darkness/ It took me years to understand/ That this, too, was a gift. - Mary Oliver
Just for the record darling, not all positive changes feel positive in the beginning -S C Lourie
sisoon ( Moderator #31240) posted at 7:43 PM on Friday, August 23rd, 2019
fBH (me) - on d-day: 66, Married 43, together 45, same sex ap
DDay - 12/22/2010
Recover'd and R'ed
You don't have to like your boundaries. You just have to set and enforce them.
sisoon ( Moderator #31240) posted at 5:43 PM on Tuesday, September 24th, 2019
fBH (me) - on d-day: 66, Married 43, together 45, same sex ap
DDay - 12/22/2010
Recover'd and R'ed
You don't have to like your boundaries. You just have to set and enforce them.
Chrysalis123 ( member #27148) posted at 3:15 PM on Sunday, October 6th, 2019
Someone I once loved gave me/ a box full of darkness/ It took me years to understand/ That this, too, was a gift. - Mary Oliver
Just for the record darling, not all positive changes feel positive in the beginning -S C Lourie
sisoon ( Moderator #31240) posted at 11:30 PM on Wednesday, October 23rd, 2019
fBH (me) - on d-day: 66, Married 43, together 45, same sex ap
DDay - 12/22/2010
Recover'd and R'ed
You don't have to like your boundaries. You just have to set and enforce them.
sisoon ( Moderator #31240) posted at 10:16 PM on Friday, November 15th, 2019
fBH (me) - on d-day: 66, Married 43, together 45, same sex ap
DDay - 12/22/2010
Recover'd and R'ed
You don't have to like your boundaries. You just have to set and enforce them.
sisoon ( Moderator #31240) posted at 5:49 PM on Thursday, January 9th, 2020
fBH (me) - on d-day: 66, Married 43, together 45, same sex ap
DDay - 12/22/2010
Recover'd and R'ed
You don't have to like your boundaries. You just have to set and enforce them.
BearlyBreathing ( member #55075) posted at 12:42 AM on Monday, January 27th, 2020
Me: BS 57 (49 on d-day)Him: *who cares ;-) *. D-Day 8/15/2016 LTA. Kinda liking my new life :-)
**horrible typist, lots of edits to correct. :-/ **
sisoon ( Moderator #31240) posted at 2:56 PM on Friday, February 14th, 2020
fBH (me) - on d-day: 66, Married 43, together 45, same sex ap
DDay - 12/22/2010
Recover'd and R'ed
You don't have to like your boundaries. You just have to set and enforce them.
sisoon ( Moderator #31240) posted at 4:33 PM on Friday, April 3rd, 2020
fBH (me) - on d-day: 66, Married 43, together 45, same sex ap
DDay - 12/22/2010
Recover'd and R'ed
You don't have to like your boundaries. You just have to set and enforce them.
