I was unsure if to post this story because it might be read in the wrong way depending on how you feel stuck right now, but I did mention it in another thread and I think it’s a warning to avoid doing something very stupid and unnecessarily pointless to stop the pain we feel when hit by infidelity.
The story I quoted:
— this caveat because just yesterday evening in the building next where I live, a BS just took the jump and ended or tried to end the pain that way. The WS is back being consoled by her AP right today. No idea if is alive and in coma or already passed, guess we’ll know in few days. I don’t miss the irony of it all laugh - ending your life doesn’t make a difference is just another insult to the victim, you get no justice, just a final injustice and your abusers are consequences free. live and thrive, don’t give up, is not worthy ! —
A neighbor decided that the pain was too unbearable and took a nosedive from the second floor.
He landed on grass for what I know so the paramedics were trying to reanimate them, unsure how it turned out yet, I think it’s likely over but no confirmation yet.
What is confirmed is that the daughter who was screaming and crying in the street yesterday is not home today, who is home is the Wayward finding solace within the arms of the AP.
This little sad story is to remind ourselves what is worth.
Our life. That’s an irreplaceable gift.
People who loves us. They do matter.
We matter.
People who hurt, betray and disrespect us do not.
If they don’t care about us as much they care about dopamine and validation highs, there is just about nothing that will move them away from the affair fog. They don’t care, narrative will be rewritten.
Ending your life (or attempting to, I still hope the neighbor will survive) won’t budge them. You get no justice. You get no empathy. The best you’re getting is a final insult while you pay the ultimate price.
For nothing.
This is never worthy it changes nothing, doesn’t end the pain it causes more to those who love you.
You and your life are worthy.
You deserve to reclaim it, not give it up because it was harmed by someone unworthy, with a disgusting accomplice.
Feel the pain and let it pass through, you will heal and you’ll be stronger. Happier.
That’s where the peace awaits you to reclaim it.
When you are hit by misery don’t let her win, don’t give her victory by caving in.
You are stronger.
And I believe in you.
[This message edited by BackfromtheStorm at 10:44 AM, Wednesday, June 17th]
