ArkLaMiss (original poster member #14918) posted at 1:27 AM on Friday, November 29th, 2024
Anyone heard from Dragyn?
Just HOW stupid do you think I am, exactly?
The1stWife ( Guide #58832) posted at 2:43 AM on Friday, November 29th, 2024
Survived two affairs and brink of Divorce. Happily reconciled. 11 years out from Dday. Reconciliation takes two committed people to be successful.
WhatsRight ( member #35417) posted at 9:41 AM on Friday, November 29th, 2024
I think her last post was on November 12.
Thanksgiving is such a hard time when families are in the process of splitting up. Also, just the amount of preparation and planning and spending time with family. I’m sure it’s a very hard time for their family with her situation, and the death of her brother and father.
Hopefully all is well, and they are just spending a lot of time together, trying to process things.
"Noone can make you feel inferior without your concent." Eleanor Roosevelt
I will not be vanquished. Rose Kennedy
DragnHeart ( member #32122) posted at 11:11 PM on Friday, November 29th, 2024
Hi all,
The little dragons and I are ok. With stbxwh reading here, I don't feel comfortable posting alot.
We did have our Thanksgiving back in October. It was difficult. I just had my birthday and that was hard as well. My mom and brother surprised me with a visit and brought dinner and cake.
DD is now driving. Yikes! Lol
Thanks for asking about me. It's nice to know people care. It's hard not being able to be as open here as before but k owing you guys think of us is wonderful.
Me: BS 46 WH: 37 (BrokenHeart911)Four little dragons. Met 2006. Married 2008. Dday of LTPA with co worker October 19th 2010. Knew about EA with ow1 before that. Now up to PA #5. Serial fucking Cheater.
annb ( member #22386) posted at 12:19 AM on Saturday, November 30th, 2024
Hi, Dragn, great to hear from you!
Glad your life is a bit on track despite the family losses this year. 
You are a great mom, your children are blessed to have you.
Keep in touch when possible!
tushnurse ( member #21101) posted at 6:39 PM on Saturday, November 30th, 2024
Good to know life is lifing for you. I also am glad you occasionally pop in.
One day this will be safe again.
Me: FBSHim: FWSKids: 23 & 27 Married for 32 years now, was 16 at the time.D-Day Sept 26 2008R'd in about 2 years. Old Vet now.
Shehawk ( member #68741) posted at 10:59 PM on Saturday, November 30th, 2024
Sorry for the challenges but glad you are doing ok and that you dropped by!
"It's a slow fade...when you give yourself away" so don't do it!
Notthevictem ( member #44389) posted at 9:30 AM on Monday, December 2nd, 2024
BH
DDAY Mar 2014
Widowed 2022 - breast cancer
Edie ( member #26133) posted at 10:45 AM on Monday, December 2nd, 2024
somanyyears ( member #26970) posted at 1:50 PM on Monday, December 2nd, 2024
..well, well, well...my old friend. How the hell are you?
It's been a dogs age since we shot the breeze about how our lives have been since joining this wonderful website! ( thanks again DS & MH)
I confess that I have not been keeping up with all my friends here...life gets busy with all the other 'stuff'...and with my typing skills or lack there of, I just don't find the time to peck away on the keyboard. I do catch some time for 'Stupid Picture Friday'... God knows we all need more laughter in out lives eh!!!
LF and I are enjoying life with our one and only grandson...soon to be 5 years old in june. He is a delight to be with...curious and funny as hell.
So... your eldest is driving now??? Holy crap... that must keep you awake all night!! I'd be surprised if I am still around to see my grandson driving. Maybe that's a good thing though. So many crazy drivers out there. The road rage out there is unbelievable. ( TV Road Wars) and I heard that 65% of USA drivers have a weapon in their car??? I hope I'm wrong about that! We carry long guns in Canada but that's in case we cross paths with an irate moose or vicious beaver crossing the highway..
any way...LF and I hope you are well, as well as can be expected given the Hell we've been put through on this journey.
It's early I know but Merry Christmas and Happy New Year Dragn...Don't let the bastards get you down.
your friend..smy 
trust no other human- love only your pets. Reconciled I think!Me 77 Her 73 Married 52 yrs. 18 yr LTA with bff/lawyer. Little fucker died at 57.Brain tumour!
somanyyears ( member #26970) posted at 3:21 PM on Wednesday, December 4th, 2024
..Dear Dragn...having spent some time catching up reading, I just read your other posts informing members about your brother's and father's death. OMG...I'm so sorry. Please accept my sincere condolences for your losses. Life and death are mysteries that,at77, I still haven't figured out. 
smy
trust no other human- love only your pets. Reconciled I think!Me 77 Her 73 Married 52 yrs. 18 yr LTA with bff/lawyer. Little fucker died at 57.Brain tumour!
DragnHeart ( member #32122) posted at 5:41 PM on Tuesday, December 10th, 2024
One day this will be safe again.
Tush,I sure hope so. I miss being able to post freely here. There's SO much that has happened that I just can't talk about. Things I'd like to ask and get feedback on but again, just can't.
Dragonfart!
NTV, you can always make me laugh.
I've been trying to find me time to do some things I want, like read a few books I bought that I haven't gotten to yet, but I will...
somanyyears
I'm surviving as best I can.
We need to do a G2T after the holidays. You and LF up for that? I haven't been on here much and I don't know how many of us Kanucks are still here but life is short so screw it. Gotta make it happen.
Me: BS 46 WH: 37 (BrokenHeart911)Four little dragons. Met 2006. Married 2008. Dday of LTPA with co worker October 19th 2010. Knew about EA with ow1 before that. Now up to PA #5. Serial fucking Cheater.
StillLivin ( member #40229) posted at 2:41 AM on Wednesday, December 11th, 2024
Im so sorry that this isn't as safe a space as it once was. When things settle down, hopefully it will become a better place again for you! I hope you are almost out of the rabbit hole!
"Bitch please a good man can't be stolen." ROFLMAO - SBB: 7/2/2014
Myname ( member #23138) posted at 4:36 AM on Wednesday, December 11th, 2024
Hi Dragn.
I just came on here to check in on you.
DD: 1-14-09 EA/PA OM #1
TT: 5-11&12-09
DD#2: 5-18-09 EA OM #2
5-31-09: Told me she hasn't loved me.
No kids
Me BH: 45
12-08-10: S
Divorced and moved on with my life.
DragnHeart ( member #32122) posted at 11:39 PM on Wednesday, December 11th, 2024
I hope you are almost out of the rabbit hole!
It will be a while.
Today was the first of three scheduled court dates. DD was a total champ. I'm very proud of her. But this wasn't a good experience at all and I don't look forward to the next dates. We don't have to go back until the new year which is frustrating. We just want all of this over and it's all being dragged on.
So we are ok but we aren't ok if that makes sense.
Me: BS 46 WH: 37 (BrokenHeart911)Four little dragons. Met 2006. Married 2008. Dday of LTPA with co worker October 19th 2010. Knew about EA with ow1 before that. Now up to PA #5. Serial fucking Cheater.
Notthevictem ( member #44389) posted at 12:57 AM on Thursday, December 12th, 2024
BH
DDAY Mar 2014
Widowed 2022 - breast cancer
78monte ( member #72572) posted at 2:49 AM on Thursday, December 12th, 2024
It's always good to see how people are doing.
Keep well Drag'n, wishing you and the little drag'ns all the best over the holiday season and hope you have a wonderful 2025.
