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 DaddyDom (original poster member #56960) posted at 5:54 PM on Monday, August 24th, 2020

Has anyone heard from her? It seems she hasn't been on since April. I know a lot of people are taking a break from SI during Covid but she was very active, and hasn't yet responded to a PM. Just hoping all is okay.

Me: WS
BS: ISurvivedSoFar
D-Day Nov '16
Status: Reconciling
"I am floored by the amount of grace and love she has shown me in choosing to stay and fight for our marriage. I took everything from her, and yet she chose to forgive me."

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MrsWalloped ( member #62313) posted at 6:42 PM on Monday, August 24th, 2020

Oh. I hope she’s okay!

Without betraying any confidences or her privacy, could one of the mods or other guides just let us know if she’s alright?

Me: WW 47
My BH: Walloped 48
A: 3/15 - 8/15 (2 month EA, turned into 3 month PA)
DDay: 8/3/15
In R

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Krystlebefore ( member #56351) posted at 8:29 PM on Monday, August 24th, 2020

Isn’t it funny how you notice these things.....was thinking exactly the same last week - where is EvolvingSoul....

Hoping all is well....

I reside on the wayward side of the street....

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gmc94 ( member #62810) posted at 12:56 AM on Tuesday, August 25th, 2020

Her profile says last visit on 8/23 (Sunday), so hopefully we'll hear with this thread?

M >25yrs/grown kids
DD1 1994 ONS prostitute
DD2 2018 exGF1 10+yrEA & 10yrPA... + exGF2 EA forever & "made out" 2017
9/18 WH hung himself- died but revived

It's rude to say "I love you" with a mouthful of lies

posts: 3828   ·   registered: Feb. 22nd, 2018
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 DaddyDom (original poster member #56960) posted at 12:58 AM on Tuesday, August 25th, 2020

I show her last visit as April 29th? Weird.

Me: WS
BS: ISurvivedSoFar
D-Day Nov '16
Status: Reconciling
"I am floored by the amount of grace and love she has shown me in choosing to stay and fight for our marriage. I took everything from her, and yet she chose to forgive me."

posts: 1446   ·   registered: Jan. 18th, 2017
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gmc94 ( member #62810) posted at 1:04 AM on Tuesday, August 25th, 2020

hmmm. I show her last POST as 4/29... but last visit as 8/23. Maybe it's an SI flaw... but it IS weird.

[This message edited by gmc94 at 7:21 PM, August 24th, 2020 (Monday)]

M >25yrs/grown kids
DD1 1994 ONS prostitute
DD2 2018 exGF1 10+yrEA & 10yrPA... + exGF2 EA forever & "made out" 2017
9/18 WH hung himself- died but revived

It's rude to say "I love you" with a mouthful of lies

posts: 3828   ·   registered: Feb. 22nd, 2018
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WalkinOnEggshelz ( member #29447) posted at 1:35 AM on Tuesday, August 25th, 2020

What you see on a profile may depend on the membership you have (platinum vs gold).

She has checked in with staff. I can tell you that she is taking time to focus on family.

If you keep asking people to give you the benefit of the doubt, they will eventually start to doubt your benefit.

posts: 16686   ·   registered: Aug. 27th, 2010   ·   location: Anywhere and everywhere
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 DaddyDom (original poster member #56960) posted at 2:52 AM on Tuesday, August 25th, 2020

Thank you WOES!

Me: WS
BS: ISurvivedSoFar
D-Day Nov '16
Status: Reconciling
"I am floored by the amount of grace and love she has shown me in choosing to stay and fight for our marriage. I took everything from her, and yet she chose to forgive me."

posts: 1446   ·   registered: Jan. 18th, 2017
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MrsWalloped ( member #62313) posted at 2:14 PM on Tuesday, August 25th, 2020

Thank you!

Me: WW 47
My BH: Walloped 48
A: 3/15 - 8/15 (2 month EA, turned into 3 month PA)
DDay: 8/3/15
In R

posts: 769   ·   registered: Jan. 17th, 2018
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EvolvingSoul ( member #29972) posted at 5:51 AM on Wednesday, September 2nd, 2020

Hi you all,

I'm okay.

As WOES said, I have taken a pretty long break. My dad had some health issues starting late last year that culminated in his death from cancer this last July. My mom and I were his primary caregivers and while I've been able to keep reading here I just haven't had the brain space for any kind of thoughtful responses.

Last week we had another tragedy in our family, a suicide. 2020 has truly been a rough year. Over the last six months I have despaired that if my family's lives ever returned to normal that there still would not be a normal world to which we could return. Everything is upside down.

My big takeaway from the last 8 months is that every day is precious.

Thanks to everyone who has been keeping the fires lit here.

Proceeding with conviction and valor,

A still EvolvingSoul.

Me: WS (63)Him: Shards (58)D-day: June 6, 2010Last voluntary AP contact: June 23, 2010NC Letter sent: 3/9/11

We’re going to make it.

posts: 2571   ·   registered: Oct. 29th, 2010   ·   location: The far shore.
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MrsWalloped ( member #62313) posted at 12:35 PM on Wednesday, September 2nd, 2020

I’m so sorry to hear about your dad’s passing. May he Rest In Peace. And to hear about your other family member too. What a tragedy. My sincerest condolences.

Please take care of yourself as you take care of your loved ones.

Me: WW 47
My BH: Walloped 48
A: 3/15 - 8/15 (2 month EA, turned into 3 month PA)
DDay: 8/3/15
In R

posts: 769   ·   registered: Jan. 17th, 2018
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