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I just wish...

Leelee1013 posted 5/10/2019 03:27 AM

I just wish I had someone to talk to about everything....

Smallwonders posted 5/10/2019 03:29 AM

I think we are all in that boat to some degree.

Leelee1013 posted 5/10/2019 03:50 AM

Yeah i guess we are, it's so hard to connect sometimes after all this mess.

The1stWife posted 5/10/2019 04:56 AM

Here we are. Talk away!

STLLOST posted 5/10/2019 11:14 AM

Yep 1st wife is away.

Chaos posted 5/10/2019 11:17 AM

That's what this place is for. Talk - you will be heard.

1Faith posted 5/10/2019 11:27 AM

We are here for you. We understand your hurt and your pain.

Share when you are ready.


ThisIsSoLonely posted 5/10/2019 11:34 AM

I know what you mean. Sometimes I start to type something and stop simply because my fingers are not fast enough and my words are not accurate enough and my thoughts are so broken up they are incomprehensible even to me. Sometimes I need an actual VOICE and not just words on a screen - a real conversation.

My WH currently still works with his AP and NC has been broken so many times I don't even count it anymore, and the fact is that it likely won't stop until one of them quits, transfers, moves, or dies and there is really no one in my real life who would possibly get that. No one I can call and talk to right then and there when I feel like it. We're not even trying to R and it still frustrates the hell out of I get what you are saying.

And be able to meet someone IRL would be spectacular!

Wintergarden posted 5/14/2019 22:20 PM

Pain is pain.

We are all here because that's what we feel and although everyone's situations are different we all have pain in common.

I want to fast forward to a time when life will be calmer, less painful and smiles come freely, but who knows when that will be. I am forever amazed how anyone can hurt someone so much, but these posts show a consistency of abuse, lack of respect and selfishness, time surely cannot correct. I am negative but would love to be positive again!!

Noname2016 posted 5/15/2019 13:11 PM

ThisIsSoLonely - I get what you mean. I wish I had someone I could talk to. Just vent. Just tell how much my heart hurts sometimes. Like actual physical hurt. How much I miss what we had, and how much I am sad that I wonít ever have the life I envisioned. Today I am just a mess. Letís just be messy together. Tomorrow will be a new day.

Stilldenying posted 5/15/2019 13:26 PM

My WH currently still works with his AP and NC has been broken so many times I don't even count it anymore, and the fact is that it likely won't stop until one of them quits, transfers, moves, or dies.

I could have written this word for word. And he literally just said it ain't gonna change, no contact wasn't even an option. He'll do whatever the hell he wants. I'm crazy, won't stop digging, they are just friends... he's her mentor... blah blah blah. I am sorry you are also in this position. I am in FL and just joined a support group for betrayal. It was nice to talk to them, they really truly got it. My IRL friends support me but they want me out!!

Lemondrop10 posted 5/15/2019 15:22 PM

I feel that way at times too. It helps to write on here but being able to talk is different. The worst is when there arenít even words that can fully explain the things going on in my head. I unfortunately allowed my WH to make me withdraw from most of my friends and family so I donít even know who I would talk to. I have been very private about my personal life also, mostly out of shame so I feel like it would take a year to explain it to anyone even if I tried. My job requires me to maintain a professional face at all times and I very rarely break that, Iíve grown very good at acting fine. But sometimes I get into my car after and scream at the top of my lungs. It helps.

maise posted 5/15/2019 17:19 PM

I feel this same way, actually exactly as Thisissolonely put it, sometimes I just want to TALK to someone. Verbally. Just have someone I can engage with on the phone or in person that understands. I also feel very scrambled in my words and thoughts when typing. But given the emotional stress of infidelity on us that are betrayed, it makes perfect sense for us to zap out.

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