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manofintegrity (original poster member #69550) posted at 8:30 PM on Tuesday, April 9th, 2019
Just passed the preacher broke down. Thought about stopping to help, but have to pick up our son from school. Could stop on the way home. It would be the Christian thing to do. You know you are recovering well when you get to this point in R.
onthefence123 ( member #66156) posted at 8:39 PM on Tuesday, April 9th, 2019
It would be the Christian thing to do.
Nah. OM probably has a phone to call for help. If you really felt compelled to do something, call 911 for roadside assistance for him.
You know you are recovering well when you get to this point in R.
I would say so. It would take everything I had not to "accidentally" hit OW.
Have a wonderful afternoon with your son!
Edited: oops, I usually double check where I am at, my apologies!
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manofintegrity (original poster member #69550) posted at 9:12 PM on Tuesday, April 9th, 2019
Coming up on 2 yrs post DDay. Yes, I fully understand those “accidents” now. He was gone when I came back through.
DebraVation ( member #51156) posted at 9:12 PM on Tuesday, April 9th, 2019
I would offer him a lift, then drive in completely the wrong direction and dump him many miles away from home.
Marz ( member #60895) posted at 9:19 PM on Tuesday, April 9th, 2019
I would've stopped and helped when hell froze over.
JMO
twisted ( member #8873) posted at 11:27 PM on Tuesday, April 9th, 2019
I would have waved as you drove by. No point in not being friendly at least..... 
"Hey, does this rag smell like chloroform to you?
wifehad5 ( Administrator #15162) posted at 11:38 PM on Tuesday, April 9th, 2019
Just a reminder that there is no name calling allowed in the Reconciliation forum. POSOM counts as name calling.
FBH - 52 FWW - 53 (BrokenRoad)2 kids 17 & 22The people you do your life with shape the life you live
manofintegrity (original poster member #69550) posted at 11:46 PM on Tuesday, April 9th, 2019
Sorry about that. Thank you for the reminder.
HeartBreaker11 ( member #69904) posted at 3:26 PM on Wednesday, April 10th, 2019
I am glad that you have found healing. :)
Brennan87 ( member #57850) posted at 7:41 PM on Thursday, April 11th, 2019
Mano,
You are a better man of integrity than I. While I am spiritual, this is ONE area, where I by pass my beliefs.
Kudo's to you for having the thought to help someone in distress. I couldn't have done it. No way, no how.
You give me inspiration!
cocoplus5nuts ( member #45796) posted at 12:39 AM on Friday, April 12th, 2019
[Quote]You know you are recovering well when you get to this point in R.
This is an interesting statement from you. In almost all your other posts you are very angry with the OM. I wonder how much of that anger is directed towards your CW since she's the one who really betrayed you. She's the one who broke your M vows.
[This message edited by cocoplus5nuts at 6:24 AM, April 12th (Friday)]
Me(BW): 1970
WH(caveman): 1970
Married June, 2000
DDay#1 June 8, 2014 EA
DDay#2 12/05/14 confessed to sex before polygraph
Status: just living my life
66charger ( member #69471) posted at 2:45 AM on Friday, April 12th, 2019
Long ago, I decided the Christian thing to do was to refrain from sending a straight right down the middle...several times.
An OM should expect no more.
Hurtbeyondtime ( member #58376) posted at 2:23 PM on Friday, April 12th, 2019
Hell No ... unless it to knock his car off the jack. He wasn’t very Christian when he was b—ging your wife. 🙄
SMSA925 ( member #43955) posted at 2:19 PM on Saturday, April 13th, 2019
Do not get in the path of Karma. Let it go.
Me: BS; b. 1958
Him: WH b. 1952
Together since 1982, Married 20yrs at DDay#1
DDay April 17, 2014; DD#2 2/15
My ducks lined up, life is good!
FamilyMan75 ( member #65715) posted at 10:48 PM on Monday, April 15th, 2019
If the last OM was on the side of the road, I'd leave him there.
Me: 48 WW: 37 (serial cheater)T: 18 M: 15 3DDs: 16, 6, 5 Reconciled
manofintegrity (original poster member #69550) posted at 4:27 PM on Tuesday, April 16th, 2019
I quickly came back to my senses and did. Much better than my other two options I thought about.
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