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Admitting it vs. Getting it vs. Owning it vs. Living it

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RandomName posted 9/14/2020 12:04 PM

Thank you for this. Kinda bouncing between 1,2

AintGonnaLose posted 9/14/2020 17:35 PM

My WS has literally said

I take responsibility for what I did! Its not my fault you dont want to let it go. I dont deserve to have this brought up every day.

I owned the fact that I lied and I apologized. Now its on you to trust me.

Look, I get it, I understand how it must feel. It probably feels a lot Iike when you get dumped in high school. (I shit you not.)

And my favorite:

I know I hurt you, but Im entitled to forgivenesses!!

I think hes the only person on the planet who cant see how problematic to the point of ridiculousness those statements are.

[This message edited by AintGonnaLose at 5:37 PM, September 14th (Monday)]

This0is0Fine posted 9/14/2020 17:57 PM

Rad bump GMC. This is a good thread for BSs to understand the phases their WS is likely to go through. I think my WW is still "getting it", to some extent is trying to "fix it". She hasn't really owned it yet.

EvolvingSoul posted 1/14/2021 16:54 PM

Bumped for t999.

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