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Things that every WS needs to know

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EvolvingSoul posted 8/15/2019 19:34 PM

Bumped for MIgander

EvolvingSoul posted 8/16/2019 20:30 PM

Bumped for Short05.

Ashvika posted 8/18/2019 07:08 AM

This is my first post.
I had and affair for 1 year, 8 months.
D-day was July 8. 41 days ago.

Why isnt my wife exhibiting any of these things the BS is supposed to do?

Even my counselor is puzzled.

EvolvingSoul posted 9/17/2019 22:47 PM

Bumped for ashamed7broken.

NotSureAboutIt posted 9/19/2019 14:45 PM

Literally 30 years since DDay. I have been reading SI daily for months. I find it very helpful. There are many triggers, but there are many things that I never dealt with. My guilt and shame are with me daily. This site is helping me come to grips with what I did - still trying to fully understand why. It did get me to regularly thank my wife for giving me a second chance. That triggered her a bit since we donít normally talk about my A. But it has proven helpful. We are getting closer every day. R is not easy and it is not quick. It is worth it. Do you ever truly forgive yourself? Iíll let you know if it happens.

[This message edited by NotSureAboutIt at 2:46 PM, September 19th (Thursday)]

Unhinged posted 10/2/2019 07:52 AM

(bumped)

EvolvingSoul posted 10/14/2019 22:56 PM

Bumped for Frankly.

wantstorepair posted 10/20/2019 12:44 PM

Thank you so much for reposting this. It is so important to not just read this, but to live it every day for them and their recovery...something I have not done. I am going to read this daily and listen and act. Thank you!!

EvolvingSoul posted 10/29/2019 20:36 PM

Bumped for fallleaves.

EvolvingSoul posted 11/20/2019 21:29 PM

Bumped for ARTexan04.

EvolvingSoul posted 12/17/2019 19:23 PM

Another bump. This is a thread that should never die.

EvolvingSoul posted 12/18/2019 20:20 PM

Holy cow I just realized this thread has at long last been pinned to the top! Thank you SI admin!

Triples posted 12/20/2019 10:11 AM

I sent to my WW. I'm not sure what I intended, but it described me so very accurately. I guess I just wanted her to read something that is so eloquently put and dead on the money!

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