InkHulk ( member #80400) posted at 1:37 PM on Wednesday, October 21st, 2026
Friend, why are you even contemplating allowing your wife’s AP to come to dinner? That seems like a horrible idea to me. What are your reasons for this?
People are more important than the relationships they are in.
survrus ( member #67698) posted at 5:33 PM on Wednesday, October 21st, 2026
It's a way to collect data, more data is better data. Body language smiles glances
Listening to the lies, omissions and minimizations can make for a good laugh, as I found out speaking to OM1.
Easier to record the conversation on his own turf and then turn it over to the other spouse
He can manipulate OM to run OMW down in the conversation or even confess to other indiscretions playing good cop.
Being cordial in the present does not equal long term forgiveness.
[This message edited by survrus at 5:35 PM, Wednesday, October 21st]
