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 Beachwalker (original poster member #70472) posted at 7:15 AM on Wednesday, July 10th, 2024

As of June 5, I am no longer married. The last weekend in June, I helped my XWW move out and into her new home. I then spent 6 days doing absolutely nothing, unless you count sitting by/in a pool and hot tub as actually doing something. This was a long awaited and desperately needed vacation.

I just wanted to update everyone here and thank you for the support I have received and continue to receive. My WW warned me about this site saying she read reviews which reported it was full of toxic people and bad advice. I have found the opposite to be true. Thank you all for your wisdom, your kindness, your patience, and your friendship.

Regarding looking forward, I have had some ladies already reach out and say they want to meet me. I know I'm not ready for another wedding, but I do intend to enjoy their friendship for a while and get to know them. I will not be secretive about me wanting to take time to adjust to my new life before getting serious with anyone, and I look at this as an opportunity to get to know some of them, and if things progress, we'll see where those paths lead. blink

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BearlyBreathing ( member #55075) posted at 3:21 PM on Wednesday, July 10th, 2024

Congratulations, with a side of bittersweetness. Good luck in your next endeavors and yes, be sure to heal before diving in the deep end of the dating pool. But have fun in the shallow end!

Me: BS 57 (49 on d-day)Him: *who cares ;-) *. D-Day 8/15/2016 LTA. Kinda liking my new life :-)

**horrible typist, lots of edits to correct. :-/ **

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 Beachwalker (original poster member #70472) posted at 4:17 AM on Thursday, July 11th, 2024

Thanks, BB!

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leafields ( Guide #63517) posted at 5:06 AM on Thursday, July 11th, 2024

Ditto what BB said. Enjoy but be sure to heal before getting serious.

BW M 34years, Dday 1: March 2018, Dday 2: August 2019, D final 2/25/21

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