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 Confusedmd (original poster member #78802) posted at 11:39 AM on Sunday, May 21st, 2023

During the affair, especially during the "honeymoon phase" of the affair, was sex with AP better than sex with BS? Did you want to have sex with AP more than BS? (Please be honest about this)

If not, why did you have more sex with AP than BS?

How can a WS who wanted AP more sexually in the affair make up for it now?

(BS who can answer this for their WS, you are also free to reply)

Thank you.

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FinallyHappy ( member #308) posted at 1:18 PM on Sunday, May 21st, 2023

Well, is there some difference in this post than the one you posted recently? It looks like you recieved a bunch of good answers.

https://www.survivinginfidelity.com/forums/?tid=660466&HL=78802

You can ask questions of WW spouses here if not.

https://www.survivinginfidelity.com/forums/?tid=660466&HL=78802

[This message edited by FinallyHappy at 1:20 PM, Sunday, May 21st]

"Be civil to all; sociable to many; familiar with few; friend to one; enemy to none." ~Ben~

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denwickdroylsden ( member #51744) posted at 1:24 PM on Sunday, May 21st, 2023

During the affair, especially during the "honeymoon phase" of the affair, was sex with AP better than sex with BS? Did you want to have sex with AP more than BS? (Please be honest about this)


Yes, and emphatically yes.

How can a WS who wanted AP more sexually in the affair make up for it now?


For me it is impossible. The difference in experiences remains. It's just something you learn to live with. Manifestly unfair to BS, for sure.

Me: WH frequent flyerNow on straight and narrow.
Paragraphing: Try it. You'll like it.

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WalkinOnEggshelz ( Administrator #29447) posted at 1:59 PM on Sunday, May 21st, 2023

Please ask questions directed to WS members in the I Can Relate Forum under BS Questions for WS.

If you keep asking people to give you the benefit of the doubt, they will eventually start to doubt your benefit.

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