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 Scherzo (original poster new member #80983) posted at 10:19 PM on Monday, September 19th, 2022

I wd delete this if I could figure out how.

[This message edited by Scherzo at 1:13 AM, Tuesday, September 20th]

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grubs ( member #77165) posted at 1:44 AM on Tuesday, September 20th, 2022

There is an article on no contact in the healing library under discovery section.
Selling and moving has to be seriously considered as I don't see how this doesn't become too toxic for you having OW on the condo board. Might be time to move closer to the grandkids for good.

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 Scherzo (original poster new member #80983) posted at 4:44 AM on Tuesday, September 20th, 2022

Grubs, thank you. This will be very difficult for me. He has owned the condos for a long time, before he met me, so it will be hard. We go to therapy tomorrow. Maybe i will post again.

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TruthIsPower ( member #75776) posted at 1:31 PM on Tuesday, September 20th, 2022

This will be very difficult for me. He has owned the condos for a long time, before he met me, so it will be hard.

So sorry you found yourself in this mind wrenching situation.

What exactly will be very difficult for you? To ask your WH to sell the condo? If you could clarify.

As for

it will be hard

.... Hard for whom?

All actions have the consequences.... Inactions too.
If your WH feels truly remorseful, he should be turning the mountains to make it right.
If the material things are more important to him instead of Your well-being and healing, then this is who he really IS.

Strength to you and healing!

"Stop giving people the reasons to love you. Not all will see the beauty of your soul. Those who know, those who know who you are, will love you with something fierce and never let you go. Those are the ones worth holding out for."

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SI Staff ( Moderator #10) posted at 5:39 PM on Wednesday, September 21st, 2022

Just a reminder: deleting a post is a guideline violation.

It's not difficult for any web function to restore deleted text.

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