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Dr Debi Silber

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 Cooley2here (original poster member #62939) posted at 2:47 AM on Friday, July 29th, 2022

She gives a TEDx talk about the trauma to bs. Pretty good talk.

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When things go wrong, don’t go with them. Elvis

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leafields ( member #63517) posted at 5:12 AM on Friday, July 29th, 2022

I've watched some of her TEDx talks and they are very good.

BW M 34years, Dday 1: March 2018, Dday 2: August 2019, D final 2/25/21

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Seeking2Forgive ( member #78819) posted at 7:20 AM on Saturday, July 30th, 2022

She describes the trauma of betrayal very well, but in the video she only hints at her miraculous five steps to recovery (or whatever it was). Does anyone know the Cliff Notes version of that?

Me: 60, BS -- Her: 59, FWS -- Dday: 11/15/03 -- Married 37 yrs -- Reconciled

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HFSSC ( member #33338) posted at 1:28 PM on Saturday, July 30th, 2022

I did some searching and it’s interesting that while she alludes to her stages you can’t find them summarized or even named without paying for the content. I find myself put off by someone who claims a fail proof or miraculous technique that can only be explained for payment.

Idk… I read a transcript of a podcast and it sounds great. I just feel like if I discovered a path to healing from something as debilitating as betrayal trauma I don’t think I could monetize it. Ymmv of course.

Me, 54
Him, 45 (JMSSC)
Married 24 years. Reconciled.

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Seeking2Forgive ( member #78819) posted at 8:45 PM on Tuesday, August 2nd, 2022

I agree, that was the vibe that I got as well. It's a shame. These days I think it's much more effective to put it out there and focus on building a strong brand and community around something like that. Then you can monetize the support structure around it. As it is, you really don't know whether it's secret sauce or snake oil.

Me: 60, BS -- Her: 59, FWS -- Dday: 11/15/03 -- Married 37 yrs -- Reconciled

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numb&dumb ( member #28542) posted at 9:06 PM on Tuesday, August 2nd, 2022

Anyone willing to give the same set of answers to any problem that has so many variables. . .especially for a price. . .yeah, no.

Just my .02.

Dday 8/31/11. EA/PA. Lied to for 3 years.

Bring it, life. I am ready for you.

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