crazycatlady ( member #12849) posted at 6:45 PM on Thursday, July 21st, 2022
Tell her husband asap. It’s the BEST thing you can do. Trust me and all the other members. Blow up her world and crush his. Sit back and file.
Love all, trust a few. Do wrong to none.
William Shakespeare "All's Well That Ends Well"
D-Day: Nov 30, 2006
"For I have sworn thee fair, and thought thee bright, who art as black as hell, as dark as night."
William Shakespeare
TheEnd ( member #72213) posted at 10:50 PM on Thursday, July 21st, 2022
I agree on telling the OBS.
The two lovebirds want to carry on? Well, do it in the open with the consequences of that. Have a nice day!
Then, you, move forward.
I know the pain. Believe me, I f'in know. But at the end of the day you have two people willing to risk their entire lives and the entire lives of their families for.... an orgasm. Girl, you can order one up tonight if you want to. It is NOTHING special. In fact, the people who prioritize that over bonds, commitment, future ... are underdeveloped teenagers. You don't need that shizzle in your life. You're more evolved than that.
So speak your truth. Expose the cheaters for the underdeveloped, immature assholes they are and get yourself out of infidelity.
Much love and hugs to you.
BigMammaJamma ( member #65954) posted at 5:32 PM on Tuesday, July 26th, 2022
Hi Born-
Just checking in. You doing okay?
Me- born in 1984
Him- born in 1979
We both have 3 kids from previous marriages and we share a four year old. I might be a BS, but at this point, I don't know if I'll ever know.
Update: As of 5/8/2020, my WH confirmed I belong in this club
mblink ( member #52745) posted at 1:32 AM on Wednesday, July 27th, 2022
Put yourself in the other spouse shoes. Would you want to know?
