Emptyglass (original poster new member #80295) posted at 1:59 AM on Saturday, July 30th, 2022
I’m not going to defend him or what he’s done. I know he knows right from wrong and cheated because he wanted to. I already know he’s an asshole for what he’s done. He does need therapy and I’m glad he’s getting it. Whether our marriage works or doesn’t I’m glad he’s in therapy.
He is trying to make amends yes. Doesn’t mean I trust him or let my guard down.
I do believe he was more concerned about losing his family than the OW when discovered. It wasn’t just me giving him the cold shoulder.
Cooley2here ( member #62939) posted at 4:07 AM on Saturday, July 30th, 2022
If it seems we are coming on too strong sometimes it is because we all have a hard time with his quick response. It seems like his attitude is he screwed around on you with her most of your marriage but….. oh well ho hum move on. That doesn’t seem realistic. What we hope doesn’t happen that he waits a few months, you calm down, and he is back to cheating. I wish that didn’t happen but all you have to do is read on here long enough and see. Just keep your guard up.
When things go wrong, don’t go with them. Elvis