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 Unhinged (original poster member #47977) posted at 8:59 PM on Tuesday, May 3rd, 2022

Whoo hooo!!!

(don't have much else to say)

[This message edited by Unhinged at 8:59 PM, Tuesday, May 3rd]

Married 2005D-Day April, 2015Divorced May, 2022

"The Universe is not short on wake-up calls. We're just quick to hit the snooze button."-Brene Brown

posts: 6414   ·   registered: May. 21st, 2015   ·   location: Colorado
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countrydirt ( member #55758) posted at 9:43 PM on Tuesday, May 3rd, 2022

Congrats!

3 adult sonsMarried 32 years. DDay1 - June 2016, DDay 2 - April 2017, Final DDay - May 2020. Divorced - January 2021

posts: 391   ·   registered: Oct. 25th, 2016   ·   location: Colorado
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leafields ( member #63517) posted at 9:57 PM on Tuesday, May 3rd, 2022

Congratulations!

BW, Dday 1: 2/18, Dday 2: 8/19, D final 2/25/21

posts: 1080   ·   registered: Apr. 21st, 2018   ·   location: Washington State
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BluerThanBlue ( member #74855) posted at 12:55 AM on Wednesday, May 4th, 2022

Your user name has a new meaning... you're no longer hinged to an asshat. :-)

BW, age 40
Divorced WH in 2015; now happily remarried to a great guy

I edit my comments a lot for spelling, grammar, typos, etc.

posts: 737   ·   registered: Jul. 13th, 2020
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OrdinaryDude ( member #55676) posted at 1:49 AM on Wednesday, May 4th, 2022

Unhitched???

Me - BH 50+
Her - WW 50+
Married 30+ years, 2 adult kids
(1989) PA Rug-Swept
(2002) EA Rug-Swept
(2016) EA *Getting Out Of Infidelity*

**Working at Reconciling**

posts: 3411   ·   registered: Oct. 19th, 2016   ·   location: The Big Easy
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BearlyBreathing ( member #55075) posted at 2:03 AM on Wednesday, May 4th, 2022

Welcome to the next chapter. Hope you make it an amazing chapter.
Congratulations on getting through to the other side.

Me: BS 55 (49 on d-day)Him: WH. 64. D-Day 8/15/2016 LTA. Kinda liking my new life :-)

**horrible typist, lots of edits to correct. :-/ **

posts: 4701   ·   registered: Sep. 10th, 2016   ·   location: Northern CA
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tushnurse ( member #21101) posted at 8:05 PM on Wednesday, May 4th, 2022

Congratulations. You can hold your head high knowing that you did all you could.
You are a good man, and I hope you find happiness and some joy in every single day moving forward.

Me: FBS
Him: FWS
Kids: 22 & 25
Married for 30 years now, was 16 at the time.
D-Day Sept 26 2008
R'd in about 2 years. Old Vet now.

posts: 19250   ·   registered: Oct. 1st, 2008   ·   location: St. Louis
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funnelcakes ( member #45249) posted at 7:39 AM on Thursday, May 5th, 2022

Wonderful news. It's really a joyful moment when it finally hits. Welcome to the next chapter!

d-day in August of 2014, when I was SAHM 34 weeks pregnant with kid #3
A year of incontinent alcoholic cheater word salad and shitweasely blameshifting during R/S
I got a job and busted a move with three kids to a 1BR apt
D final 4/27/17.

posts: 1168   ·   registered: Oct. 15th, 2014
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Chili ( member #35503) posted at 3:13 PM on Thursday, May 5th, 2022

Good on you Unhinged. Welcome to the other side. Time to be your own decider and make what you want of this life.

2012 pretty much sucked.
Things no longer suck.
Loving flying solo with the co-pilot chili dog.
"Life teaches you how to live it if you live long enough" - Tony Bennett

posts: 2189   ·   registered: May. 2nd, 2012   ·   location: Reality
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Shehawk ( member #68741) posted at 3:15 PM on Thursday, May 5th, 2022

Congratulations 🎉

Here's to a wonderful next chapter for us all!

posts: 938   ·   registered: Nov. 5th, 2018   ·   location: VA
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 Unhinged (original poster member #47977) posted at 2:30 AM on Monday, May 9th, 2022

Thanks. However painful this entire journey has been, from d-day to (hmm...) liberation day, I can truly breathe again and just be me (which could use a bit of improvement to be honest). I feel relieved, released, and far more healed than I could have ever anticipated seven years ago.

Hi funnelcakes! It's been a long, long time since we've posted on the same thread. I guess I'm a bit slower on the up take than others. Either way, it's nice to "see" you.

Married 2005D-Day April, 2015Divorced May, 2022

"The Universe is not short on wake-up calls. We're just quick to hit the snooze button."-Brene Brown

posts: 6414   ·   registered: May. 21st, 2015   ·   location: Colorado
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