Topic is Sleeping.
Lifeexploded (original poster member #51196) posted at 6:21 PM on Wednesday, March 16th, 2022
I heard from my oldest daughter yesterday that my ex is planning to propose to his girlfriend of two months. The older kiddos don't like her at all, and aren't fans of her kids either. For the last couple of months my 8 year old has been routinely acting like he doesn't want to go to his Dad's when it's time for his parenting time. This behavior may or may not be related, but it's an interesting coincidence at the very least. So, I feel like this might be a difficult change for them. I'm looking for books for ME to read to help me know how to help them mentally and emotionally, support them, and be their rock during this adjustment (IF she says yes!)
Married for 19.5 years to a sex addict. Filed for divorce 4/15/2020. Freedom July 22, 2020!
Bigger ( Attaché #8354) posted at 6:31 PM on Wednesday, March 16th, 2022
The Bible!
It has plenty of phrases and passages on gratitude. 
"If, therefore, any be unhappy, let him remember that he is unhappy by reason of himself alone." Epictetus
josiep ( member #58593) posted at 7:35 PM on Wednesday, March 16th, 2022
I don't think it's your job to figure out how to support them through this, it's his. I don't think you should have to make a special or extra effort because of HIS actions. I say you plan a vacation or an outing or something fun with your kids and just have a fantastic time together. Tuck them in at night, tell them how much you love and cherish them and the rest will take care of itself.
Well, maybe ice cream sundaes for dinner one night might seal the deal (of them understanding that they have a safe, full and complete family at home with you). :)
BW, was 67; now 74; M 45 yrs., T 49 yrs.DDay#1, 1982; DDay#2, May, 2017. D July, 2017
Topic is Sleeping.
