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Newest Member: 39Robbo

Divorce/Separation :
Ex tries to get chummy, I shoot him down.


 freetogonow (original poster member #57821) posted at 4:30 AM on Sunday, January 9th, 2022

Lather, rinse, repeat.

I fucking love grinding his nose in what is clearly buyers remorse. It is more gratifying than I’d have ever imagined.

Enjoy sleeping in that shitty bed you made, motherfucker, lol

Ps: please no one annoy me by saying "just block him". I will once the final financial aspect is wrapped up, we are waiting on two different government agencies. It’s like a slow day in hell, ugh.

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messyleslie ( member #58177) posted at 6:29 AM on Sunday, January 9th, 2022

There is a song called "closure" by Taylor swift that I think fits this and I have scream sang it a lot when feeling angry about my ex thinking we were going to be friends.

Favorite lines:

"Don’t treat me like some situation that needs to be handled. I’m fine with my spite and my tears and my beers and my candles. I can fee you smoothing me over."


"I know I’m just a wrinkle in your new life. Staying friends would iron it out so nice. Guilty guilty reaching out across the sea, that you put between you and me. But it’s fake and it’s oh so unnecessary."

Like who dare someone who has hurt me like my ex has think that we will be friends? I’m okay but that doesn’t mean he and I are okay. We will never be okay.

I understand the needing the stick it out and fake it for the finances, and I’m so glad I did that but gosh the moment it was all signed and approved and I don’t ever need to talk to you about anything other than kid related stuff and even that I would prefer that you email.

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leafields ( member #63517) posted at 6:17 PM on Sunday, January 9th, 2022

Mine thought we'd be BFFs. Nope, people who great me like that aren't friends.

Amazing what they think they can get away with, isn't it?

Me: BW
Married 34 years, 3 DS
DDay #1: March 26, 2018, DDay #2 8/26/2019
Filed for D: 11/16/2020
D Final: 2/25/2021

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Unhinged ( member #47977) posted at 11:35 PM on Tuesday, January 11th, 2022

I'm now a huge fan of Taylor Swift. What a great song! Perfect!!! I want to send a link to my STBXWW.

Heading towards divorce
D-Day April, 2015

"The Universe is not short on wake-up calls. We're just quick to hit the snooze button."
-Brene Brown

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messyleslie ( member #58177) posted at 5:28 AM on Thursday, January 13th, 2022

I'm now a huge fan of Taylor Swift. What a great song! Perfect!!! I want to send a link to my STBXWW.

I can make anyone a Taylor Swift fan. And I can make you a divorce playlist 😂

"My tears ricochet" is also a perfect song. She wrote it about her relationship with her former manager but then said she was thinking about divorces as well.

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