Newest Member: girlangry89

Off Topic :
Birthday party invitation and covid

default

 DragnHeart (original poster Member #32122) posted at 10:57 PM on Monday, September 13th, 2021

Little M came home with an invitation to a birthday party next month.

I know that we can't live in fear and things have been lifted regarding covid but is this a really good idea?

She cannot be vaccinated.
She has had severe respiratory issues leading to hospitalization.
Shes on daily medication as well has inhalers.

Theres really no details in the invitation other than the location and date. I doubt everyone will be wearing masks. I will be contacting the parent to get that info but should i even consider letting little M go?

I know she wants to and wants to hang out with her friends more outside of school. Its just still so scary. Covid numbers are up in unvaccinated here.

Thoughts?

Me: BS 44 nowWH: 35 almost 36 (BrokenHeart911)Four little dragons.Met 2006. Married 2008. Dday of LTPA with co worker October 19th 2010. Knew about EA with ow1 before that.Full disclosure March 8th 2019 four AP's.

posts: 21887   ·   registered: May. 10th, 2011   ·   location: Canada
id 8688335
default

zebra25 ( Member #29431) posted at 12:38 AM on Tuesday, September 14th, 2021

That's a tough one Dragn. You want to let your kids have some fun and socialize but also need to keep them safe.

Is the party with kids she is with everyday at school?

Where is the party?

Is your DD high risk?

"Don't let anyone who hasn't been in your shoes tell you how to tie your laces."

D-day April 2010

posts: 2448   ·   registered: Aug. 25th, 2010
id 8688355
default

 DragnHeart (original poster Member #32122) posted at 12:49 AM on Tuesday, September 14th, 2021

The parent posted on our community forum asking who got invitations in little M class since one kid came home with most of them lol

So i assume its with her entire class.

I think shes high risk. She got a cold one year and within a day was in the hospital.

This is so difficult. The kids have lost out on so much social time

Me: BS 44 nowWH: 35 almost 36 (BrokenHeart911)Four little dragons.Met 2006. Married 2008. Dday of LTPA with co worker October 19th 2010. Knew about EA with ow1 before that.Full disclosure March 8th 2019 four AP's.

posts: 21887   ·   registered: May. 10th, 2011   ·   location: Canada
id 8688357
default

zebra25 ( Member #29431) posted at 1:42 AM on Tuesday, September 14th, 2021

I can see why you are struggling with this.

If she is with the kids at school it seems like it would be okay.

I would also be concerned if I were yoh given how sick she gets.

I'm really no help.

"Don't let anyone who hasn't been in your shoes tell you how to tie your laces."

D-day April 2010

posts: 2448   ·   registered: Aug. 25th, 2010
id 8688366
default

 DragnHeart (original poster Member #32122) posted at 1:47 AM on Tuesday, September 14th, 2021

Oh its ok.

Wh says hes comfortable letting her go with classmates. We can have her wear a mask too.

It's just scary.

Me: BS 44 nowWH: 35 almost 36 (BrokenHeart911)Four little dragons.Met 2006. Married 2008. Dday of LTPA with co worker October 19th 2010. Knew about EA with ow1 before that.Full disclosure March 8th 2019 four AP's.

posts: 21887   ·   registered: May. 10th, 2011   ·   location: Canada
id 8688367
default

zebra25 ( Member #29431) posted at 2:32 AM on Tuesday, September 14th, 2021

That seems reasonable since she is with them even day anyway.

I go through the same struggle every time something comes up for us. You can really make yourself crazy trying to decide what is safe.

We have friends coming to visit from an area that has a high rate of covid. They are vaccinated but bringing their grandchild. I would prefer not to be around an unvaccinated child that goes to daycare and on vacations but it's not up to me. They are coming to visit family and other friends and I guess nobody else cares.

I'm so tired of worrying about this.

"Don't let anyone who hasn't been in your shoes tell you how to tie your laces."

D-day April 2010

posts: 2448   ·   registered: Aug. 25th, 2010
id 8688374
Cookies on SurvivingInfidelity.com®

SurvivingInfidelity.com® uses cookies to enhance your visit to our website. This is a requirement for participants to login, post and use other features. Visitors may opt out, but the website will be less functional for you.

v.1.000.20210918 2002-2021 SurvivingInfidelity.com® All Rights Reserved. • Privacy Policy