BMC0415 (original poster Member #14038) posted at 11:16 PM on Friday, September 10th, 2021
I was really dreading it, thought that I would look at the video feed to make sure she was really gone, but the Lord had positive plans for me.
I lost my job in 2019 thanks to covid, well I blessed today with them calling me back to my old job at same pay! It is temp. But better than what I was getting which was nothing.
I was dealing with all the paperwork and conferences getting my job back that I missed the funeral completely. I called the OC last night and let them know I love them.
Thank you God for giving me something positive to focus on at a time when I was feeling pain. So blessed.
[This message edited by BMC0415 at 11:19 PM, Friday, September 10th]
Me: 50+ Him: 50+Married: 20+ yearsD-Day: 3/7/07Children: 32dd,31ds,29dd 10 yr. LTA 3 OC w/OW 24,18,18. 8/14/12-gave custody of twins to ex 8/16/12-DIVORCED!
LosferWords ( Member #30369) posted at 12:09 AM on Saturday, September 11th, 2021
Hi BMC!
I don't post or read out here nearly as often anymore, but your name caught my eye, and I caught up with your most recent posts. Wow! You have sure been through a lot, and as gracefully as any human I could possibly know.
Very grateful and thankful that you got some good news today about getting your old job back... at the same pay! That is a wonderful and beautiful distraction.
Sending many kind thoughts your way, and wishing you continued peace in the future.
BearlyBreathing ( Member #55075) posted at 5:19 AM on Saturday, September 11th, 2021
Hey BMC— hope you get continued peace.
Me: BS 54 (49 on d-day)Him: WH. 64D-Day 8/15/2016 LTAKinda liking my new life :-)
**horrible typist, lots of edits to correct. :-/ **
somanyyears ( Member #26970) posted at 2:10 PM on Sunday, September 12th, 2021
..I'd say.. Any time spent 'NOT THINKING ABOUT OW' ..is a bonus, especially a dead one. OM in my case is also 'a dead one'.
Congrats on your return to the job.. you deserve a return to work and life.
smy 
trust no other human- love only your pets. Reconciled I think!
Me 74 Her 70 Married 49 yrs. 18 yr LTA with bff/lawyer. Little fucker died at 57.Brain tumor!
deena04 ( Member #41741) posted at 3:57 AM on Monday, September 13th, 2021
You deserve peace. I am glad you got your job back. You must be an amazing person to still reach out to OC and express love to them. I hope everything goes wonderful with your old "new" job.
Me FBS early 40s
Him XWS mid40s (lovemywife4ever), D
He cheated before M, forgot to tell me
Free and loving life
Lalagirl ( Member #14576) posted at 1:53 PM on Monday, September 13th, 2021
That is wonderful news, BMC! You are more than deserving of the good that comes your way. (((HUGS)))
Me-56 FWH-58 Married 37 years 9/2/2021 grown daughters-37 & 34 11yo GS,8yo GD&6yo. GD (DD37) and 9yo GD & 4yo GD(DD34). D-day #1 - 1/06; D-day #2 - 3/07 Reconciled! Construction Complete. Astra inclinant, sed non obligant
