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 Cheatee (original poster member #59284) posted at 8:18 PM on Tuesday, April 13th, 2021

So, now that I'm getting old, I'm starting to think about retirement (confession, I've been thinking about it since 1972, when I was a stock room boy at WoolWorth's).

My wonderful partner (soon to be wife!) is encouraging me to retire next summer. My work contract will be up, and six weeks later I turn 65 and can get my pension! Plus, I have a horrible horrible boss, so I need to bail.

Financially, we should be good, but talking to a financial advisor. Pension, high draw SocSec, good 401K, no debt beyond remaining mortgages. She is a little younger, but has three rental homes that are mostly paid for. She has an even better 401K.

All our kids are independent and out of the house.

I can't wait to spend all my time playing with my grandson (who live 18 minutes away!!!), making music, doing woodworking, learning digital animation, reading, writing....

...and getting out of the American work culture which is becoming so toxic.

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thatbpguy ( member #58540) posted at 9:30 PM on Tuesday, April 13th, 2021

OK, I'm jealous.

ME: BH Her: WW DDay 1, R; DDay 2, R; DDay 3, I left; Divorced Remarried to a wonderful woman

"There are far, far better things ahead than any we leave behind." C.S. Lewis

As a dog returns to his vomit, so a fool repeats his folly...

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sewardak ( member #50617) posted at 11:01 PM on Tuesday, April 13th, 2021

we are 4 years away and not sure if we'll make it.

so tired of the rat race. Could go now but we have dreams!

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Lionne ( member #25560) posted at 4:13 AM on Wednesday, April 14th, 2021

I'm happy for you! Retirement is just wonderful if you are lucky enough to be financially secure.

Congratulations!

Me-BS-71 in May HIM-SAFWH-74 I just wanted a normal life.Normal trauma would have been appreciated.

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sisoon ( Moderator #31240) posted at 7:20 PM on Wednesday, April 14th, 2021

If you don't like what you are doing to earn money, I think retirement is a great idea. I hated what I was doing, and I love being retired.

The other good thing about turning 65 is Medicare, if you've got Social Security rights.

If your GS lives 18 minutes away by car, he's probably about 30 minutes away by bicycle. I urge you to consider biking.

[This message edited by sisoon at 1:21 PM, April 14th (Wednesday)]

fBH (me) - on d-day: 66, Married 43, together 45, same sex apDDay - 12/22/2010Recover'd and R'edYou don't have to like your boundaries. You just have to set and enforce them.

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