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 NorthernMSB (original poster Member #69725) posted at 7:58 PM on Friday, April 2nd, 2021

Ok...The powers that be can remove this if it isn't allowed and I would have posted it in off-topic, but it is infidelity related...I WISH I could have done something like this and certainly feel awful this lady went through this...but bravo. edited to add...this is not me, I just came across it in my local Facebook marketplace

So, you know when you’re engaged to be married and then suddenly your fiance starts spending a little too much time with her friend, Grant?

And you’re like, ‘Hey, it’s okay, Grant’s an ok guy.'

So then your fiancé starts not coming home at night because she and the girls (Grant) had a ‘wild one’ and she comes back walking a little bit like John Wayne at 4pm the next day and you think ‘Wow! It must have been a wild one since she can’t walk straight anymore. They must have had a lot of good, clean fun together.’

And you buy a house and a dog together because that’s what adults do and you sink yourself into ruin but that’s what you do when you’re in love, right?

And then your fiancé stops wanting to have sex with you despite the fact you have a great personality and an ass that Kim K would insure for 8million and you’re wondering what is wrong with you and why has she shaved her cooter tonight if not to spend the night with you?

In answer to all these questions, here I am.

The ring is beautiful. I mean, I picked it as I have great taste. But it just reminds me of ex's failure to not bang someone else, so I’d like to sell it so I can start my life again. I still have the box and documentation, as if subconsciously I knew I’d be in my pajamas alone in the middle of the afternoon on a Friday writing this tale on Facebook. I’m looking for money so I can renovate my cabin and with the cost of lumber now a days lumber is worth its weight in gold and diamonds.

Engagement Ring:

14k Gold

1x 0.17ct Diamond

8x 0.01ct Diamonds

(total diamond weight.25ct)

Appraised and cleaned worth $1550

Wedding Ring:

14k Gold

10x 0.01ct Diamonds

appraised and cleaned, worth $950

Basically, lots of sexy little diamonds.

And yes this post is a joke (sorta) Ring is for sale, ex thought she could get away with cheating , and here I am 4000+km away from her now and lumber is overpriced

The comments on the post are very supportive of the betrayed girlfriend.

[This message edited by NorthernMSB at 2:56 PM, April 2nd (Friday)]

Me: BW-52
Him-WH-56
DDay 1: 2009- ex girlfriend, rugswept
Dday 2: Christmas Eve 2018-Another ex girlfriend-5 week sexting affair
Dday 3- March 21, 2019 Same AP as Dday 1,he never stopped cheating with her-20 years-ended October 31, 201

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Catwoman ( Member #1330) posted at 8:42 PM on Friday, April 2nd, 2021

Who is overwhelmingly supportive of a cheater?

They certainly aren't worth your time, in my opinion.

Sell the rings--put them on Facebook Marketplace or Craigslist or eBay and buy yourself what you need for your renovations.

One of the most satisfying days I had was the day I collected up all the trashy lingerie my ex loved (I guess "two-bit hooker is his thing--I thought it was demeaning, especially since he liked me to look like that in public) and gave it lock stock and barrel to Goodwill.

Here's hoping you will experience the same.

Cat

FBS: Married 20 years, 2 daughters 27 and 24. Divorced by the grace of GOD.
D-Days: 2/23/93; 10/11/97; 3/5/03
Ex & OW Broke up 12-10
"An erection does not count as personal growth."

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 NorthernMSB (original poster Member #69725) posted at 8:49 PM on Friday, April 2nd, 2021

Catwoman. The post is the BG posting to sell the ring she got FOR the cheater. The comments are in support for the betrayed girlfriend Not in support of the cheater...

This is a small town and the cheater was outed quite neatly and publicly

This isn't me!!! I just came across it. Maybe it needs to be taken down if it is so unclear. sorry, I just thought the lady had balls.

[This message edited by NorthernMSB at 2:51 PM, April 2nd (Friday)]

Me: BW-52
Him-WH-56
DDay 1: 2009- ex girlfriend, rugswept
Dday 2: Christmas Eve 2018-Another ex girlfriend-5 week sexting affair
Dday 3- March 21, 2019 Same AP as Dday 1,he never stopped cheating with her-20 years-ended October 31, 201

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 NorthernMSB (original poster Member #69725) posted at 8:50 PM on Friday, April 2nd, 2021

duplicate

[This message edited by NorthernMSB at 2:50 PM, April 2nd (Friday)]

Me: BW-52
Him-WH-56
DDay 1: 2009- ex girlfriend, rugswept
Dday 2: Christmas Eve 2018-Another ex girlfriend-5 week sexting affair
Dday 3- March 21, 2019 Same AP as Dday 1,he never stopped cheating with her-20 years-ended October 31, 201

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DevastatedDee ( Member #59873) posted at 10:01 PM on Friday, April 2nd, 2021

That is gorgeous, ha ha ha.

DDay: 06/07/2017
MH - RA on DDay.
Divorced a serial cheater (prostitutes and lord only knows who and what else).

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Adira ( Member #77327) posted at 10:52 PM on Friday, April 2nd, 2021

Classic! Love it when a cheater gets their karma.

Me BW, STBXWH covert NPD
2 teenage kids
M: 24 years, together 27 years
3x DDays: 08/2017; 10/2017; 02/2018 with the Hobbit Howorker.
False R: 02/2018-12/2020
Currently in IHS

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EyesOpened50 ( Member #54610) posted at 6:10 PM on Tuesday, April 6th, 2021

Karma at 'Diamond level'

More use with the new timber, making something positive out of it!!

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fooled13years ( Member #49028) posted at 6:32 PM on Tuesday, April 6th, 2021

My heart was with the BGF but surely broke when she reminded me of the cost of not just lumber but all material renovation related.

The extra bedroom and bathroom I am adding has increased in material cost by approximately 210%.

I hope she gets her money back for the rings and can do a great job on her reno.

I removed myself from infidelity and am happy again.

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WhoTheBleep ( Member #49504) posted at 6:40 PM on Tuesday, April 6th, 2021

The post is the BG posting to sell the ring she got FOR the cheater. The comments are in support for the betrayed girlfriend Not in support of the cheater...

I think what made this confusing was that it is a same sex female relationship, and the wayward cheated with a man (Grant)? Did I get that right? The only clue for me was when the betrayed compared her butt to Kim Kardashian's... Although men can have great butts too 😁.

Either way, fantastic post. The betrayed writer is actually a great writer. I hope someone buys that ring and she gets her lumber. A renovated cabin sounds delightful!

[This message edited by WhoTheBleep at 12:41 PM, April 6th (Tuesday)]

I believe we have two lives: the one we learn with, and the one we live with after that. --The Natural

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 NorthernMSB (original poster Member #69725) posted at 8:29 PM on Tuesday, April 6th, 2021

Update! She sold the rings, bought the lumber and is moving on. She posted the pic of a newly framed room. Talented lady. I think her strength and sense of humour will bring her through the situation...

Sorry for the confusion. if I hadn't removed the names etc it would have been more obvious this was a same sex couple.

Me: BW-52
Him-WH-56
DDay 1: 2009- ex girlfriend, rugswept
Dday 2: Christmas Eve 2018-Another ex girlfriend-5 week sexting affair
Dday 3- March 21, 2019 Same AP as Dday 1,he never stopped cheating with her-20 years-ended October 31, 201

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