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AboveAverage7913 (original poster member #75423) posted at 12:00 PM on Monday, March 22nd, 2021
Maybe this has been said before...
The best way to seize the day is to convert discovery day into divorce day.
To paraphrase the intro to a bad cover song, cheaters stole this day... we're taking it back.
The1stWife ( Guide #58832) posted at 1:37 PM on Monday, March 22nd, 2021
What about those who successfully reconcile ?
Survived two affairs and brink of Divorce. Happily reconciled. 12 years out from Dday. Reconciliation takes two committed people to be successful.
Justsomeguy ( member #65583) posted at 5:31 PM on Monday, March 22nd, 2021
Well, I'm just guessing that since this is posted in D/S, it is specifically concerning D and S.
I'm an oulier in my positions.
Me:57 STBXWW:55 DD#1: false confession of EA Dec. 2016. False R for a year.DD#2: confessed to year long PA Dec. 2 2017 (was about to be outed)Called it off and filed. Denied having an affair in court papers.
Divorced
Unrealized ( member #77151) posted at 7:01 PM on Monday, March 22nd, 2021
With the damage my wife’s affair has done to the family I like the idea of divorce day. On January 1st next year I am going to have a celebration. If I have the kids with me I will make sure we do something really cool. I am still shocked at how my former wife could do and act like she did and show zero remorse. Better to have her out of my life
AboveAverage7913 (original poster member #75423) posted at 2:21 AM on Tuesday, March 23rd, 2021
@TheFirstWife. Different subforum.
@JustSomeGuy. Exactly.
HalfTime2017 ( member #64366) posted at 9:20 PM on Tuesday, March 23rd, 2021
AboveAverage - good for you. My thread is just below yours and I'm 4 yrs out. You just have to make the best of the situation once you find yourself here. Sometimes that damage is just too great to overcome. You will be better off.
nothisfriend ( member #53171) posted at 2:40 PM on Wednesday, March 24th, 2021
My co-workers got me a cake on Divorce Day. As soon as the papers were signed all my friends in the courthouse came by my office to wish me well. It was a great feeling (and good cake!) It was definitely the start of my new life.
Me: BS 50 (at the time) Him: WH 53 (at the time) D-Day: 10/25/15 Married: 28 years. One son, age 18 (at the time)
D final 2016 REMARRIED to a marvelous guy on 4/22/23
Shehawk ( member #68741) posted at 6:30 AM on Wednesday, March 31st, 2021
My divorce day will come :)
And never too soon!
"It's a slow fade...when you give yourself away" so don't do it!
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