AboveAverage7913 posted 3/22/2021 06:00 AM

Maybe this has been said before...

The best way to seize the day is to convert discovery day into divorce day.

To paraphrase the intro to a bad cover song, cheaters stole this day... we're taking it back.

The1stWife posted 3/22/2021 07:37 AM

What about those who successfully reconcile ?

Justsomeguy posted 3/22/2021 11:31 AM

Well, I'm just guessing that since this is posted in D/S, it is specifically concerning D and S.

Unrealized posted 3/22/2021 13:01 PM

With the damage my wife’s affair has done to the family I like the idea of divorce day. On January 1st next year I am going to have a celebration. If I have the kids with me I will make sure we do something really cool. I am still shocked at how my former wife could do and act like she did and show zero remorse. Better to have her out of my life

AboveAverage7913 posted 3/22/2021 20:21 PM

@TheFirstWife. Different subforum.
@JustSomeGuy. Exactly.

HalfTime2017 posted 3/23/2021 15:20 PM

AboveAverage - good for you. My thread is just below yours and I'm 4 yrs out. You just have to make the best of the situation once you find yourself here. Sometimes that damage is just too great to overcome. You will be better off.

nothisfriend posted 3/24/2021 08:40 AM

My co-workers got me a cake on Divorce Day. As soon as the papers were signed all my friends in the courthouse came by my office to wish me well. It was a great feeling (and good cake!) It was definitely the start of my new life.

Shehawk posted 3/31/2021 00:30 AM

My divorce day will come :)

And never too soon!