Topic is Sleeping.
UnstuffedGiraffe (original poster member #74937) posted at 11:10 AM on Saturday, March 13th, 2021
I’ve listened to enough of her books to forget where I found it. She talks about the connection between shame and addiction and how they are so connected it’s impossible to tell which comes first. Anyone know where to find it?
Me BW - Married 20 years
Him - 2 Affairs 9 years apart
DDay October-December 2019 & July 2020
Chaos ( member #61031) posted at 5:13 PM on Monday, March 22nd, 2021
I'm listening to Rising Strong now and have others on hold at my local library. I'll keep an ear out and let you know.
I am interested in this.
BS-me/WH-4.5yrLTA Married 2+ decades - Children (1 still at home) Multiple DDays w/same AP until I told OBS 2018 Cease & Desist sent spring 2021"Hello–My name is Chaos–You f***ed my husband-Prepare to Die!"
UnstuffedGiraffe (original poster member #74937) posted at 12:58 PM on Wednesday, March 24th, 2021
She has a way of putting things that I know to be true into words but couldn’t previously describe, that one hit me like I should have seen it sooner. It explains so much. Also, you hear a lot of the same stories if you listen to enough of her books.
Me BW - Married 20 years
Him - 2 Affairs 9 years apart
DDay October-December 2019 & July 2020
gmc94 ( member #62810) posted at 6:23 PM on Wednesday, March 24th, 2021
Unstuffed - she talked about this when promoting Daring Greatly, so wondering if it's there? Unfortunately, I only have her on audiobook, so can't look it up :(
M >25yrs/grown kids
DD1 1994 ONS prostitute
DD2 2018 exGF1 10+yrEA & 10yrPA... + exGF2 EA forever & "made out" 2017
9/18 WH hung himself- died but revived
It's rude to say "I love you" with a mouthful of lies
UnstuffedGiraffe (original poster member #74937) posted at 10:25 PM on Wednesday, March 24th, 2021
Audible really needs a search feature.
Me BW - Married 20 years
Him - 2 Affairs 9 years apart
DDay October-December 2019 & July 2020
UnstuffedGiraffe (original poster member #74937) posted at 9:27 PM on Monday, March 29th, 2021
Found it. It’s in her podcast about Shame and Accountability. It’s mostly Shame vs Empathy, I’d love it if she would do an episode focusing more on the addiction.
Me BW - Married 20 years
Him - 2 Affairs 9 years apart
DDay October-December 2019 & July 2020
Topic is Sleeping.
