Me BW - Married 20 years
Him - 2 Affairs 9 years apart
DDay October-December 2019 & July 2020
Carpal Tunnel release surgery
So, after putting it off for way too long I’m getting both hands done soon. I need recovery stories good, bad and ugly. I want to know what I’m getting myself into.
13 comments posted: Friday, May 21st, 2021
How to talk to daughter about scratches on her arm.
She’s picking at her skin until it bleeds. If asked why she shuts down and tries to hide it. She’s OK with me talking to her about the importance of keeping it clean. I want her to know it’s OK to talk to me.
5 comments posted: Friday, April 23rd, 2021
Stray pants need ideas
Today my husband found a pair of women’s pants in our carport. When he held them up and asked if they where mine they looked like they had been folded. They where buried in debris and cat fur but didn’t look like they had been there that long, like they had been stuck under something and left. They do not fit anyone who lives here, it is possible they could fit a neighbor. We live in a very secluded rural area I didn’t find anything strange on the security camera but I didn’t look at everything.
Any ideas? Why would you hide pants, excluding the obvious reason we are all here?
11 comments posted: Sunday, March 21st, 2021
Brene Brown shame-addiction connection
I’ve listened to enough of her books to forget where I found it. She talks about the connection between shame and addiction and how they are so connected it’s impossible to tell which comes first. Anyone know where to find it?
5 comments posted: Saturday, March 13th, 2021
Who is it that makes the fart jokes?
So, I’m in Texas the state that shut down for a week for weather some of you deal with for months every year. We’re OK a little restless and moody but we have electricity, water and food. But, the dogs ran out of food! Feed store was closed, grocery store is only open 5 hours a day and the line was wrapped around the building and Walmart was closed. I had to buy dog food at the dollar store the dogs are going to be FARTING ALL WEEKEND! The fumes will be in my dreams.
1 comment posted: Friday, February 19th, 2021
Talking about sex
We’re both feeling unheard, we are also not talking enough about it. I tried today and it didn’t really go well. One thing I need to make abundantly clear is I can’t focus on just pleasing him (he’s not asking for this all the time) because it lets that 3rd and occasionally 4th person into my head. I want more sex a lot more and I want both of us to have fun but talking to him about it shuts him down.
7 comments posted: Saturday, February 13th, 2021
My husband’s phone isn’t holding a charge well and he isn’t very good at keeping it charged which is makes me triggery when I can’t contact him.
He needs something with an awesome battery life preferably days. Android, he has no interest in using Apple products.
He’s had Samsung’s for a long time. I refuse to buy another phone that has a blocked messages folder, those need to be sent into oblivion.
I forgot wireless charging is a must.
16 comments posted: Sunday, February 7th, 2021
Is there a way to check the browser history?
3 comments posted: Thursday, February 4th, 2021
I Hate Snow
Sure it’s pretty and it only happens every 4-5 years and melts as soon as the sun comes out. But it’s a wet slushy mess, it’ll be nice slippery ice by morning. It wasn’t supposed to freeze until after it stopped raining, it’s been snowing all damn day, it started when I was grocery shopping and started to stick to the road on the way home, I’m a Texan I’m not supposed to drive in this shit. Just for more fun my car and phone decided I should listen to some triggery music on the way home. The electricity has also been out since this afternoon.
The kids had a blast playing outside all day. They have never seen this much snow before and have never seen it come down that hard before. School is also canceled for tomorrow, they are happy.
I’m ready for spring now, can we declare winter over? I did make a tiny snowman.
18 comments posted: Sunday, January 10th, 2021
Key Lime Pie
I’ve made 2 this week. What do I do with 10 egg whites? Most people in my house don’t even like eggs. I may just give them to the dogs.
9 comments posted: Wednesday, November 25th, 2020
Bra or no bra?
I consider them completely pointless unless it’s cold, Not enough there to need one for support. I wear them in public because that is what your supposed to do but as soon as I get home it comes off, not really worried about wearing one when other people are over, apparently this bothers my husband. The older I get the less I really give a shit what anyone thinks. So, for those who don’t really need a bra when do you wear one?
67 comments posted: Thursday, October 29th, 2020